8 Inch D*ck

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8 Inch D*ck
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 2:31am
My man says he is 8"... but how do "I" know if he is telling the truth? He said that he measured it. He is 25 years old and said that it hasn't finished growing... what does he mean "it hasn't finished growing?" How is this possible? He is 25! I thought you stop growing at 18! And oh yeah, another thing-- I wish he was a little bigger-- or maybe it's just that I'm (my vagina) too big!

hightek669@yahoo.com (E-mail me, if you wish...)

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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 7:58pm
Well, I need some more advice...
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Mon, 10-04-2004 - 8:28pm

I'm not sure what anyone else can tell you.


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Tue, 10-05-2004 - 1:04am
Tish, you ask me why I am in a relationship with him-- no-- wait-- why I have sex with him... well, for one, he is my boyfriend... who else am I supposed to have sex with? And second, it's not all about the sex... I love him for him-- and not what he's like in bed. It's pretty funny, but you're always answering my posts. I want to thank you. You give out good advice. You're there for me. I need a friend like you. I want you to know a little more about me & what my relationship is like... click on "Topics A-Z" up at the top and scroll down to "relationships A-Z." I have posts under "relationship problems," "cheating," and "sex." You are more than welcome to read what I have posted under those message boards. It will help you understand me more & realize where I stand.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 10-05-2004 - 7:54am

Hightek,


After reading the posts where you sent me, my thoughts have changed a great deal, this is not a sexual problem.


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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 1:58am
I'D BE SO MUCH HAPPIER W/O HIM, BUT I LOVE HIM & CAN'T BRING MYSELF TO LEAVE HIM. I JUST CAN'T DO IT. HE & I ARE SO MUCH ALIKE. WE BOTH HAVE PROBLEMS. WE HAVE SO MUCH IN COMMON. HE PUTS UP WITH MY CRAP... I DON'T KNOW WHAT OTHER GUY WOULD. I HAVE MANY PROBLEMS. I AM CRAZY-- YOU JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND. AND HE ACCEPTS ME FOR WHO I AM. THAT'S WHY I LOVE HIM SO MUCH. I'VE PUT HIM THROUGH SO MUCH SH*T AND DRAMA. I JUST CAN'T DO IT. I'M IN LOVE. I'M CRAZY ABOUT HIM. I DON'T KNOW WHAT I'D DO W/O HIM.
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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 8:43am

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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 12:11pm
You don't need to say anymore. You've said enough. I know what I need to do. I've not only heard it from you, but from my folks, etc. Thank you for your advice. You've been helpful.
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Wed, 10-06-2004 - 2:02pm
Tish,

With each post I read, I realize you and I have a lot in common. The "never trust a drug addict" rule was one I learned the hard way, too. Unfortunately, the drug addict was my own sister. This did not stop her from hurting and using everyone in her path. It was a long hard 8 1/2 yrs. until the complications from all the drug abuse took her life. She was cross-addicted to heroin and crack. Although she did some terrible things to me, I still miss her every day. She was my only sister and 7 weeks after she died, my only brother died of a brain aneurysm. There is no way to describe how this felt.

I am also 46 yrs. old and was a rape victim at 18. I've been married for 16 yrs. and have one daughter, so we aren't exactly alike, but I have noticed a lot of similarities. I am also mostly a stay-at-home mom.

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Wed, 10-06-2004 - 2:05pm
It sounds like you're more in love with the drama than to him. What would you do without him? Maybe find a person that treats you decently? Maybe you wouldn't *have* so much stuff that someone has to put up with if you were in a good realationship. I don't think he accepts you for who you are if he's criticizing you, esp. if it's something you have no control over (the size of your vagina????)

Sounds like misery loves company to me.

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Thu, 10-07-2004 - 12:34am
I wonder if I should wip out the ruler next time he's naked. He'll take it as an insult, though. But I'm just curiuos as to how "BIG" he really is...