Advice on anal sex....
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Advice on anal sex....
| Mon, 11-01-2004 - 7:11pm |
Hey! I was posting to find out more about techniques involving anal sex. The 1st time I tried anal sex was HORRIBLE (mainly bc my bf didnt use lubricant... stupid I know). Now I am dating a different guy and we've been together a long time and I've got comfortable enough to where I would like to try it with him. He promise if it hurts at all we will quit, that he will be gentle, and we will definitely use LOTS of lubricant. I know of all the risks.. I know you should not go from anal to vaginal bc of bacterial infections (and also bc i think its gross, my opinion though). I know that we both do NOT have stds. He will wear a condom, and I am on birth control. My main questions would be.. Does the female get any pleasure out of this?? I've heard for some females they have orgasms during anal, and some of my friends said no matter how much lubricant they used it still hurt. Does he need to go slow the entire time or until I am use to the way it feels and when im ready for him to go fast. Is it better to go slow? Any and all advice on making this pleasurable and comfortable for me would be great. Also if you have any tips on how to make it mind blowing for my bf let me know. Thank in advance! : D
S. Strawberry

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