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| Sun, 12-11-2005 - 8:16pm |
hi everybody, i used to be a member here but havent been on for ages so this is my first post with my new name.
i had a miscarriage last year (pregnancy was not planned) and ever since then sex has been pretty much a no-go area with my partner (we live together). he says the only way in his mind to stop it happening again is to not have sex but its ruining our relationship cos i feel like theres no closeness between us. we have sex once in a blue moon and even then he's just going through the motions, he says he's so worried about falling pregnant again and that he doesnt think he'll actually want to have sex until he's ready to start a family. i feel like im stuck in the position where im unhappy with the way things are but the only way out of it is to split up and i dont want it to come to that yet. i dont know what to do, i feel like i need to get my confidence back cos i feel unwanted by my partner, everybody needs to feel wanted sometimes but im sick of being rejected! dont know what to do, sorry this was quite long,
thanks if you got this far, any advice would be much appreciated!
xx

First question, what form of BC are the two of you using?