Advice for Sex with a "LARGE" guy??
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Advice for Sex with a "LARGE" guy??
| Mon, 07-16-2007 - 11:40am |
I recently started dating this guy who is amazing and very WELL endowed. To the point where I think he may be hitting my cervix?? it's slightly painful/pressure like feeling. Me on top of him is pretty much impossible b/c of the penetration. I've never ran into this problem before! Any ideas of what i can suggest to him to make it more enjoyable for me??

When I was a depressed teenager, the only thing I liked about myself was how long and thick I was, 8.5" long, 6.5" around-hey I AM a guy and you expect me to brag, right?!.
I've luckily matured into a lover who loves pleasing her so much I sometimes forget about myself.
I can not remember a single time that when I would start to slide into her that she would quickly ask me to stop for a minute so that she could relax to accommodate my size. Once she was comfortable, then I could slowly enter her. Sometimes both of us liked me to go as fast and deep as possible. No woman has ever said afterwards that she felt sore or that I was too big for her. Sometimes, depending on position, I could feel the tip of my penis hit the tip of her cervix. Neither of us felt pain, it was more of a surprise that didn't feel good enough to do on purpose.
Only one time was the experience exceptional. I was lying on my side and suddenly felt what I'd never felt before or since-- the head of my penis sliding along the side wall of her cervix. That must have been the deepest I'd ever been. The feeling was so intense I came sooner than I'd have liked, but I nearly exploded!
After all that, my suggestion for you is lubrication, playfulness, and you control speed and depth until it feels OK for you! Enjoy!
Welcome to the board banditi95.
There are several positions that will allow for penetration that isn't as deep. Try lying on your side or missionary (but don't raise you legs up to his chest). Making sure you are properly aroused, well lubricated and not expecting pain will go a long way to increasing your pleasure also.
Also, he can control how deeply he penetrates you as well as how hard he thrusts. Let him know that you're finding things a little too painful, and the two of you can then work together to find what works best.
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Edited 7/16/2007 8:51 pm ET by aubry_ann
Avoid positions that allow deep penetration.
Tell him to control himself and not thrust so deeply.
Avoid positions that allow deeper penetration a few days before and a few days after your period if you are not on hormonal birth control. Around ovulation your cervix pulls up, so he is less likely to hit your cervix. If you are on hormonal birth control like the pill, that prevents ovulation, ignore this piece of advice.