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Advise on Young Male
| Sun, 11-05-2006 - 1:34pm |
I posted this about 2 months ago and it is now worse. I am a 50yo female who lives in an apartment complex. We have a doorman who is a young guy who is a 22yo college student. i chatted with him on many occations and he commented on my nylons etc. LOL. Well, I was flattered that he even noticed someone my age and the conversation got into how he wore nylons too. I found this interesting and to get to the point, I invited him to my apt. to try on whatever he liked. So we get together and since we are similar in size we were able to try on a lot of things. I thought it was different but enjoyed it as did he. Now obviously during our time together we were both often nude and he was visibly arroused. i figured at some point he would either make a move on me or ask to relieve himself. He did neither. We then met many times again and did such things as shave our legs in the shower, apply nail polish, dress up etc. Now i don't have the chance to be with many 22yo's so I hoped to make this sexual but figured he would make the first move. He never did. i asked my sister who felt something was strange in that men who dress always masturbate to end things. he never masturbated. By the time he leaves, I'm rushing to get my vibrator. LOL. We even went out a few times dressed in nylons, came back and nothing sexual happened. So I finally asked him if he wanted to have sex and he stated that he enjoyed what we were doing but if I needed to relieve myself it was OK. Now that's a switch. So I figured maybe that will perk his interest. So the next time I got my vibrator and took care of myself while he watched. i asked if to use it on himself which he did for a while and while it appeard he was close to orgasming, he put it down and started painting his toe nails!!!! Now he is a fun person to be with and we have a lot of laughs. I guess I want to have more but at this point its not going to happen unless I tackle him.LOL. We get together twice a week and have been now for about 4 months. i dont think he is gay because he definetly has an erection and keeps it throughout. I dont want to end things because I do have fun and we have gone shopping together and to the salon etc.. I also feel as if he is not using me as he is not looking for sex> Any advice???

If you know anything about cross-dressers, the erection is coming from the thrill of wearing women's clothes, NOT from his proximity to you or your naked body.
Whether or not he's gay isn't the issue. He IS a cross-dresser, and he enjoys it, and he found someone who accepts his fetish. He's not interested in you, he's interested in your clothes.
You need to get out and find someone more age appropriate for yourself....someone who is interested in YOU, not your wardrobe.
I agree with Dakine, his erection is due to the sexual