Afraid to sleep with new boyfriend
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| Sat, 03-26-2005 - 4:59pm |
I just started seeing a new guy a couple of weeks ago, and he's really sweet. I'm trying to take things slow with him because I don't want a relationship right now that is too serious, so I haven't slept with him yet. (There are a lot of reasons - the semester ends in a couple of months and we live in different states, etc.) We go to a very conservative college, and they have a lot of rules, so it's really hard to find any alone time anyway. It's kind of annoying, but I don't mind because it keeps things pretty light and non-sexual for the most part. I think that eventually I would like to sleep with him, though, like if I bring him home with me for a weekend or something.
I've slept with my share of guys before, but the difference is that my new guy is black and all the other guys I have been with were white. I've heard that black guys generally have really huge penises, and I'm afraid that it will really hurt. I don't mean to sound childish or anything, and I know that I shouldn't be so worried about this.
Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Does anyone have any advice for me?

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Thanks for the advice! I guess I'm just worried that I'll be so nervous I won't be able to get wet enough. I'm glad that I'm waiting to get to know him better before I sleep with him, though. I keep reminding myself that things aren't that serious, and that if I don't feel comfortable with him, I don't ever have to take the relationship to the next level and sleep with him.
You made a good point about the babies. A baby's head has to be bigger and wider than his penis no matter how big he is, right?
Penis's come in all sizes no matter what color skin the man has.
If something is hurting in any way, then you let him know.
>>I mean, if a guy actually says that he has a really large penis, then he must, right?<<
Maybe, but men tend to overestimate. I hope you didn't think my post was a criticism. I myself am Mexican and my husband is white and we've had our fair share of comments and funny/nasty looks. You need to take more into consideration than you would the average relationship.
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