Afraid to sleep with new boyfriend
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| Sat, 03-26-2005 - 4:59pm |
I just started seeing a new guy a couple of weeks ago, and he's really sweet. I'm trying to take things slow with him because I don't want a relationship right now that is too serious, so I haven't slept with him yet. (There are a lot of reasons - the semester ends in a couple of months and we live in different states, etc.) We go to a very conservative college, and they have a lot of rules, so it's really hard to find any alone time anyway. It's kind of annoying, but I don't mind because it keeps things pretty light and non-sexual for the most part. I think that eventually I would like to sleep with him, though, like if I bring him home with me for a weekend or something.
I've slept with my share of guys before, but the difference is that my new guy is black and all the other guys I have been with were white. I've heard that black guys generally have really huge penises, and I'm afraid that it will really hurt. I don't mean to sound childish or anything, and I know that I shouldn't be so worried about this.
Has anyone ever been in a similar situation? Does anyone have any advice for me?

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"...scientists at UCLA found proteins in the skin that may be responsible for genital size."
Gee, isn't it sad that possibly millions of dollars go into research like this when other more important issues get left on the scientific back burner? Some that could possibly make a real difference in the world, too.
Edited 4/11/2005 5:11 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
After I posted this, I knew someone would bring this up and probably didn't take the time to investigate it. The study was not to try to determine what genes play a role in genital size. It was testing something unrelated. The change in genital size was a side effect, but as scientists are supposed to do, they reported their findings.
I think we should all know by now, a lot of scientific discoveries are made by accident.
Yes, it's true that accidental discoveries are made in the process of research, however, a lot of privately raised revenue will go to studies similar to the size/race one. Therefore, my point is valid.
And we've all heard of the infamous cow fart effect on the ozone level study, haven't we? LOL!
We also all know that most research is funded by private institutions and corporations, not necesssarily to benefit mankind, but to make money.
Edited 4/11/2005 5:16 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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