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After sex feeling
| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 5:27pm |
Ok I have sort of a weird question, and maybe this is only me. Sometimes after we have been having sex for awhile, I start to really hurt down there. You know, the feeling of being rubbed raw I guess. Last night I had to just completely stop b/c I kept wincing.
So my first question is, is this normal? Is something wrong with me maybe?
Also, what can I do to recover? Several days afterwards I still have the raw feeling, and I am beginning to understand why women turn down sex daily. Can I use lotion(s) or aloe or something there to help it heal?
Just for the record, we always make sure there is plenty of lube (either from me or the bottle), so that's not the problem.
Thanks
Sandra

BTW, you may THINK you're fully naturally lubricated, but it still may not be enough to prevent pain and vaginal lacerations.
One thing that's so bizarre though is, if he comes inside me, I feel like I have a furnace inside my pelvis. It doesn't hurt, it just feels very warm. That's silly b/c obviously semen is no hotter than body temperature. Purely pschosomatic I suppose, but it happens most every time.
Yes - it can. Look up botched circumsisions. When the doc snips the foreskin off, he might cut too much off. Then, they have to pull the skin together, pulling the normal pubic hair area up onto the shaft - thus causing hair to grow on the shaft where it shouldn't. I have researched it (only because of an anit-curcumsision debate) and it is possible.