Against surgery
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| Sun, 09-02-2007 - 6:57pm |
Against surgery
How do you tell someone she does not need cosmetic surgery? I have made pretty close friends with the lady who cuts my hair. I have even thought about asking her out a few times but our personality's just don't match and why mess up a good thing? She wears small sexy clothes, and explained that it is easer shake off hair form less and she just hates the big plastic rain coat as she calls it. I was in getting my hair cut the other day and she was sorta asking and at the same time telling me she was going to get a boob job. Then all the sudden she flashed for me and said see what I mean. I was speechless, VERY GRATEFUL, but speechless. --- Like I said we are good friend that can talk about anything rare in the opposite sex but dear to my heart and hard to explain. Then she shakes her shoulders back and forth a little and said what these little raisins, hmm well they are only this big because she said she was on her period. Then as I was about to catch my breath and speak, she says in case you were wondering 'I am a 36C'. I said WHY? They look great to me! She said it will help her self esteem. I know she is divorced and I don't think that it is working out with her boyfriend, perhaps too soon after the divorce or who knows that did not come up. She has had 2 kids and her legs are a bit out of shape but over all in great shape. If I was to be totally honest I would like a little bigger pair for her broad shoulders, but like I said over all she looks great. I am also not sure this will fix her self - esteem problems she says she has.
So what would you do? & What should I do? I am leaning twards not bringing it up again and if she goes for it, just quietly enjoy, but say you look nice. In the back of my mind I still want to say are you nuts you look great just as you are and offer to help her find a shrink.
Jason


I wouldn't bring it up unless she brings it up again. I would hope that she is looking for a reputable plastic surgeon who will ask her the right questions--to determine her motivation and if this is really right for her.
No I don't think this will solve her self-esteem problems. I am a 36C myself, and don't think I'm too small. Your friend needs to ask herself that if she gets attention simply because her breasts are bigger, is that the kind of attention she wants? KWIM?
Wendy
Wendy
I don't know if bringing it up in
Carrie
It sounds like this woman has issues.