against the wall

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Registered: 08-05-2006
against the wall
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Sun, 07-08-2007 - 2:28pm

Hi everyone.

Just wondering if it is easy to have sex whilst standing up, like against a wall or something. Does the guy have to be realy strong and also how does the woman get up, if you get me, does she just jump up or is there another way. Sorry if this doesnt make sense im confused myself lol.

Thankyou in advance for advice

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Registered: 01-19-2006
Sun, 07-08-2007 - 2:46pm
Oh monica_louise! Against the wall sex is so wonderful, but I'm not sure if you mean you against the wall and him up against you, or him against the wall and you in front of him.

A lot depends on the height of each of you, for one thing. If you are evenly matched in height, and you are quite flexible, then yes, if you have your back to the wall, you can use it as a support, he can enter you, and then use your abdominal muscles to pull yourself up and wind your legs around his waist. You'll find the right postion for your arms around his torso or his neck, where you have the most control and are most comfortable.

Another possibility is to have him against the wall, you in front, he enters you, and while he leans back, if you are strong enough and flexible enough, you can lean backwards, so that he has penetrated you and you are upside down. He can then thrust and you can flex your PC muscles to stimulate him. Or you can just stay upright and hold onto him, and both of you control the thrusting. But if you can do it, try the reverese position.

Try it while you can, how I wish we still could. It is wonderful.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 07-08-2007 - 8:09pm

For me, to have sex while standing up, I need to wear heels. My guy is too much taller than me to have it work otherwise. As Nenu mentioned, if you have really strong abdominal muscles, you might be able to otherwise support yourself, and he can help with his arm and back muscles as well.

For my DH and I, we tend to have sex while standing with me leaning against something (vanity, chair back, etc.) and wearing heels. The heels make up for the height difference, and the item that I lean against helps with stability.



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Registered: 05-11-2007
Wed, 07-11-2007 - 9:58am

Definitely make an effort to learn this! It makes sex possible in places where it otherwise wouldn't work and it is so much fun to do! Good advice from the other posters. Let us know how it goes if you try it!