Age 50 lady needs advise..PLZ
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Age 50 lady needs advise..PLZ
| Thu, 12-16-2004 - 4:17pm |
I don't know how to be confident with my body. I am 50 years old and lets say my past life has damaged my self esteem and due to having a mastectomy nearly 15 years ago(I only have one boob) I had/have damaged self esteem. BUT mind you i have built me up soooo far...after getting out of a stressful ugly marriage. I enjoy being who i am today. I have met this wonderful man, i know they next time we meet it will be for the whole weekend in a romantic spot. He wants me uninhibited. I am open to most everything, and am willing to try different things, I love sex, i have alot of sexual desire. I just don't know how to deal with the no confidence...i am scared he will run when he sees my body. Even tho i have heard that if a man is attracted to you from the beginning...he is not thinking about anything but what i am giving him. How do i make mad passionate love to him and feel confident. My x really damaged my mind toward this....but i am working on my thoughts so hard. I just need some advise on how to screw his brains out i guess is what i am asking.I go by the phrase (Men like a lady in public and a naughty girl in the bed room) I am so shy in that area. Cannot express myself...I can after a while, of making love to the same man for a while...HELP PLEASE???

My best advice would be to just relax and enjoy whatever happens. I am assuming the gentleman knows about the cancer (be thankful you are a survivor) so there will be no surprises there. If is all he is cracked up to be, he will understanding and supportive.
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If the man is a caring man, he will not think twice about your body and he will understand.