Age Difference Sexuality

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Registered: 11-29-2006
Age Difference Sexuality
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Thu, 11-30-2006 - 1:34pm
This will sound strange, but this is my situation. I am an 83 year old woman who has been a widow for about 3 year and was married for almost 60. I have known a 56 year old man for about 27 years. The last few months surprisingly, we have become physically involved. Much to my delight, we have engaged in foreplay and have had a few orgasms together, but no sexual intercourse. He is having a little trouble getting up because it has been a long time for him since he enjoyed a woman. With time, I'm sure he will get beyond that. I was so lonely and now when we're together, I feel such electricity through my body, I feel young again and I want to do everything with him. I want to have sexual intercourse with him, regularly preferably. I know he wants to also. I am in good health, slender and very physically active. I don't know if I should proceed to the last step with him or go no farther. I never thought in my wildest dreams I would have a chance at a physical relationship with a man, especially one young enough to be my son. Fortunately he doesn't mind our age difference. Is the sort of thing I should be doing with someone so much younger? I know the reverse happens, but a lot of that has to do with "the older the man, the bigger the bank account." I am not after anything he's got accept what he brings to my bed. Thank you.
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Registered: 06-29-2006
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 2:13pm
You only go around once.
Enjoy yourself. It's nobody's business if you do.
once.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 11-30-2006 - 4:44pm

Yes, what's good for the goose is also good for the gander. Men do it, so why not women?

Enjoy this wonderful experience and go for it, ALL of it. You might suggest that he get a physical if he's having erectile difficulties. Viagra, Cialis, or some other medication may help.

There's nothing wrong with giving and receiving pleasure though.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Fri, 12-01-2006 - 12:20am

Whatever floats your boat(s)! If he's willing, and you're willing, God Bless and enjoy. It's no one's business but your own.

Just be careful he doesn't have his eye on YOUR bank account!

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Fri, 12-01-2006 - 8:34am

You're enjoying, he's enjoying, you're both adults you can do what you want.


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Registered: 11-06-2006
Fri, 12-01-2006 - 10:32pm
YOU ONLY LIVE YOUR LIFE ONCE ,SO I WOULD SAY GO FOR IT.WHO KNOWS WHERE IT MIGHT LEAD IF ITS SEX ONLY THAT U WANT SO BE IT.HOW MANY MEN DOES IT A LOT.A FEW MONTHS AGO I LEFT MY EX -I GUESS U CAN SAY I WENT A LITTLE CRAZY IAM 42 AND I MET MY BOY TOY HE;S 21 IT LASTED ABOUT A MONTH BEST MONTH OF MY LIFE THE SEX WAS OSSUM BUT THATS ALL I WANTED AND HE WANTED MORE.SO I BROKE IT OFF.DAMN....I WISH HE WANTED SEX ONLY BECAUSE I SURE DO MISS IT!!!!!!