Am I Bad in Bed?
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Am I Bad in Bed?
| Tue, 08-22-2006 - 9:56am |
I've been seeing my current boyfriend for almost two months and he is easily the best sex I've ever had. The problem is that I don't know if I quite *do* it for him. The end of sex always seems to be a struggle for him, and last night he actually pushed me off of him so he could masturbate. What do I do?

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When and where did I EVER say that sexual conflicts or problems are always "totally the man's fault?" I have never said that because I have never believed that.
On the contrary, it's typically us, the women on this board, who are continuously correcting YOUR assumptions in that regard.
Your statements continuously blame the women in your life for your lack of fulfillment. Your statements continuously assume that if only a woman thought like a man when it comes to sex, that life would be hunky dory for you.
I've always contended that there are two sides or perceptions to every story....and conflict. So, it's rare that it would be 100% any partner's fault when needs aren't being met. Most counselors will tell you that typically, a woman shuts down sexually in anger or resentment or in response to not being heard or considered by her partner. And that's why I pointed out your own likely contribution to your unhappiness.
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