am i desperate for sex and bj?

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Registered: 01-17-2005
am i desperate for sex and bj?
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Mon, 07-04-2005 - 11:19am
well... i am turning 18 this year... but since puberty begins, i was having fantasy abt these things... i did not know why... as it is legal in my country for my age to have this kind of things, i keep on thinking abt asking a girl out just to have tt thing... am i thinking too much? well, i am still a virgin... lucky, my friends especially girls r decent and will sure not accept my crazy request... but i did not know why as my desire to have these things r getting stronger and stronger... can anyone tell me whether shld i tolerate or give in to my desire?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 11:48am

You're perfectly normal having sexual desires.


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Registered: 06-28-2005
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 12:42pm
It sounds to me like you're just growing up and finding your sexuality. There's a lot of hormones running through you, and it's just an all around crazy time in life. I don't think there's anything wrong with you though.
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Registered: 07-04-2005
Mon, 07-04-2005 - 5:13pm

your normal very very normal
i can remember 18 very well i loved being that age, its so normal to have sexual feelings all the time, the only thing is now its getting stronger they just doont stop from now on, but thats a good thing, especially being a guy you will crave sex and especially bj's cause you will love it.
just go with the flow and get it when you can

but most of all dont let your urges, stop you from being safe

safety first

enjoy

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Registered: 01-17-2005
Tue, 07-05-2005 - 8:17am
i think i agree to what u all says... yeah... i think i will be responsible for what actions i take... i think sex shld be emotionally attached to the girl i love and maybe i leave it after marriage... but i feel tt blowjob shld be okie right? well i think i have to learn how to pleasure a woman too... haha... thank for the information u all have provided... haha... still have to wait until i get attached b4 i will do anything yet... right?