am i gay?

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Registered: 12-19-2004
am i gay?
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Sun, 12-19-2004 - 10:41pm
So I was having sex with my girlfriend and she happened to insert a dildo into my rear end. At first I was disgusted but then i had an orgasm soon after. It was the best orgasm of my life. Does this mean that I am gay or bisexual?
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: thebrownshaun
Sun, 12-19-2004 - 11:35pm

It means you enjoy anal stimulation, as do many people, no matter what their sexual persuasion. How did she just "happen" to do that?

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Registered: 10-13-2004
In reply to: thebrownshaun
Sun, 12-19-2004 - 11:59pm
Are you gay or bi? Only if you want to have sex with boys.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: thebrownshaun
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 8:58am
No, it does not mean you are gay.

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Registered: 11-22-2004
In reply to: thebrownshaun
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 9:37am
I don't see why on earth that makes you gay. Some -- maybe most -- people find their anus to be an erogenous zone. I don't at all, but that's just me. I mean I don't think I'm a lesbian just because I appreciate other womens' beauty. It's just cool. I think you should enjoy what you enjoy, and not worry about labels. But at any rate it has zilch to do with being gay.
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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: thebrownshaun
Mon, 12-20-2004 - 2:53pm

No, it doens't mean that you're gay. It just happens to be one sexual act that homosexuals do too. Homosexuals indulge in oral sex too - doesn't mean that you're gay because you like having your penis sucked.

Stimulating the prostate gland can be very pleasurable and that's why you will have had the big orgasm. Trouble is that the easiest (only?) way to reach it is via the anus.

How on earth did she just 'happen' to insert a dildo into your anus?! LOL! That's one place I'd be acutely aware of anyone trying to insert anything!