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Am I Just Different???
| Mon, 03-24-2008 - 8:33am |
Ok, I know that I have read that only like 20% of women can reach climax through intercourse alone, and the rest of us require at least some clitoral stimulation. Am I understanding that right? If so, then why do most men think that intercourse is all we need? Are they uninformed or is there something wrong with me. I have never been able to climax with just intercourse, but can easily with oral or manual stimulation. If the stats are right, then I am not alone. So where are these guys getting this misconception about women? Are that many women just faking it???

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hi lani
i agree with you, there are many men out there, who are clueless - what a shame!
i'm quite lucky and i do come very often through IC alone and also
I figure my orgasm is my responsibilty. I can orgasm through IC if my gspot is stimulated and it is my job to help him find that. As far clitoral stimulation he can watch how I do it and help me but ultimately, I have to be in the drivers seat for the most part.
Do you communicate differently with your guy with oral and manual than IC? Maybe that is why it is easier for you to climax that way.
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As everyone else said......it's up to YOU to ask for what you want and need.
If he's done, and he's either to tired or too lazy to take care of your needs........then how about you teach him "ladies first" which is the way most of us do it!
why, if the majority of women CAN'T climax from intercourse alone, do most men think that they CAN and act surprised when it takes more?
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It's because most men, when they were boys, thought about it and talked about it among themselves.....most of them never had a teacher, father or older man to explain it to them.
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