Am I OK

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Registered: 05-16-2005
Am I OK
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Mon, 05-16-2005 - 5:39pm
This is my situation; I am 57 years old and still very sexually active. My husbands of 30 years do it 3 or 4 times a week. I have a friend of my husband that visits me once a week for sex. Last week some one I have known at the office for the last two years have started having sex two or three times a week at the office after were closed. Last week my husband and his friend came in the office while I was doing it with my new friend and the result was I ended up doing all three. This was the first time I have had sex with more then one person. It was fantastic. Now we are planning to do this once a week. We are all friends, is this ok?
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: greek_lion
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 5:53pm
Uh....only YOU can decide if it's okay for you. It wouldn't be for me or my DH personally since we're monogamous but certainly, others make different choices.
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In reply to: greek_lion
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 9:35pm

If you and your husband are


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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: greek_lion
Mon, 05-16-2005 - 10:50pm

The only thing that would NOT make it okay is if you got something out of it that was , such as a disease or a broken friendship or a bad rep or a...a...uh...a baby?

If its okay with all of you and you all TRUST each other, then I'd think you all would certainly be mature enough to decide if it was okay for you yourselves. I DO however question the time/location of your activities, but again, thats for you to decide.

You're having fun, glad for you. :)

 

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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: greek_lion
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 1:02am

If it's ok for you, then it's ok. It doesn't matter what other people think....you're the one who's doing it, and it's your decision.

You need to be very careful of diseases. The one segment of society where AIDS is on the increase is OLDER WOMEN! Don't think you're immune, you're not.

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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: greek_lion
Tue, 05-17-2005 - 6:33pm

>>The one segment of society where AIDS is on the increase is OLDER WOMEN! Don't think you're immune, you're not.<<

Couldn't have said it better! ;)

 

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