Am I a sex addict?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2007
Am I a sex addict?
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Thu, 12-27-2007 - 4:26pm

I want somebody's opinion. I love sex and I can have sex all day everyday if I could. I am am married, my husband and I have been together for 2 years. I have sex anywhere with him, everywhere in the house, on the beach, on a public bus which was almost empty (oral sex; no one saw). I call or text him several times a day telling him how much I want to suck his dick or sit on his dick. I even tell him to moan into the phone for me. I tease

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Registered: 05-21-2007
In reply to: les_69
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 4:39pm

My gf is like you. I literally can't keep up with her. I'm good for maybe 7-10 orgasms a week. I mean I suppose I COULD do more but that's enough to make me not at all horny -- it's just not all that satisfying beyond that, and it takes forever for me to orgasm to boot. She is absolutely insatiable, and would have sex with me all day if I could do it. Only once have I felt her get dry inside after unbelievably extensive sex sessions.

Her terminology is a little different than yours though. Whether in texts, on the phone, in email, or in person, the three words I hear so often are, "COME F___ ME!!!"

On the off chance that I am horny though, she's the first gf I've ever had who, if I went over to her house and said I need a blowjob, there's a 100.0% chance that she would say "sure thing!". She's a very busy very petite business exec but if she's around, she'll drop everything and go for it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: les_69
Thu, 12-27-2007 - 9:28pm

Welcome to the board, les_69.

I think you'll find that your libido goes through many stages in your adult life. Unless sex is getting in the way of you fulfilling your responsibilities then chances are, you're not an addict. You may be experiencing a higher than average libido. I would try to enjoy it while it's there.





iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2007
In reply to: les_69
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 2:19am

There aren't many women who will admit there sex addicts PLEASE don't question yourself.

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Registered: 08-09-2007
In reply to: les_69
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 10:13am

I agree with the others. As I'm very much like you as well. I don't consider myself a sex addict. Just a woman who LOVES sex. I always have penis on the brain. No matter where I am or doing. Now, it doesn't interfere with my everyday responsibilities, but any free moment of thought I have I'm thinking of all kinds of different and nasty things I want to do and sometimes find myself sucking on my own finger! I could be in church, a funeral, driving, a meeting anywhere or doing anything and I always thinking about sex in every which way and anyway possible. If I had it my way I would also do it 24/7 if I could. I've been told by my previous ex that I'm a nympho. He couldn't understand why I was ready to go again and again after we just did it.


I say all this to say, that you are NOT alone in how you feel about sex and wanting it all the time. Because there are plenty more women out there (of course I) who have a super mad sex drive! Enjoy it girl! If it's readily available to you, I say GO 4 IT! ;)



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Registered: 12-20-2004
In reply to: les_69
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 11:54am
How would you go about having sex on a public bus without people knowing what is going on, I want to try that
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2007
In reply to: les_69
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 12:26pm
Well actually it's oral sex and the way I do it, I put my head on his lap and unzip his pants and just do it slowly, he would cum in my mouth 98% of the time in
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-27-2007
In reply to: les_69
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 1:22pm

whatever Carolyn,,,remember everybody has access to everything you say


Welcome to ivillage bitch!!


Love you

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Registered: 10-31-2003
In reply to: les_69
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 1:35pm

Hi everyone,


Please remember that name-calling and other personal attacks violate the Terms of Service and could affect your membership.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-28-2007
In reply to: les_69
Fri, 12-28-2007 - 3:03pm

I don't think it's bad to be sex addicted.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-07-2007
In reply to: les_69
Sat, 12-29-2007 - 12:03pm
If its not broken dont fix it. If it is working for you both then great. I hope that your sex life is always so pleasurable but just know sometimes in marriage you go through droughts and this is normal. Enjoy it!!