anal??

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Registered: 11-10-2005
anal??
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Mon, 09-18-2006 - 6:03pm
me and my boyfriend were concidering anal sex, i was just wondering if it is mandatory for the girl to get a enama? and is there anything else i should no or any advice before attempting anal sex?
thanks!
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: gal_friend
Mon, 09-18-2006 - 6:15pm

No, an enema is not necessary.


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Registered: 08-16-2006
In reply to: gal_friend
Wed, 09-20-2006 - 2:01pm
Are you considering this because you are interested or are you "considering anal" at your BF's request? Seeing your comment "mandatory for the girl" makes me wonder. Please, do it only if you are the one truely interested, not because someone,usually the one with the penis, is pressuring you to do so. From what I've read some women do enjoy this, but remember, this is risky sexual behavior and even tho most or all risk to the BF can be eliminated by a condom, you carry the largest burden of risk (pain, injury, disease, etc).
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Registered: 08-16-2006
In reply to: gal_friend
Fri, 09-22-2006 - 4:01pm
If it's YOU that is interested in it, I say go for it! If your bf is pressuring you, then you won't enjoy it at all. I actually prefer it to vaginal sex any day of the week! But then I prefer more intensity with sex so it all just depends - if you prefer the slow, gentle, romantic side of having sex, I would venture to guess that anal is not something you would enjoy. If you like it wild & spicy you will most definately enjoy it. But also like issytish mentioned, never ever go from anal back to vaginal without at least washing up first!!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: gal_friend
Wed, 10-04-2006 - 4:59pm

IF this sounds interesting to you, then try it. And no, an enema isn't necessary. IF he's going to go there, then you both should know it may or may not be messy and he should wear a condom. Also, no switching from anal to vaginal and back again. You could end up with a nasty bacterial infection.

If this is primarily his idea, then don't feel obligated to try it just because he wants to. Any act should be mutually pleasurable. If you aren't interested, it could be painful.

But if you try, then take it very slowly, use plenty of lube, spend LOTS of time in foreplay so that you are fully aroused and ready and don't hesitate to tell him to stop any time you feel pain or discomfort.