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Registered: 04-25-2005
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Wed, 08-10-2005 - 6:28pm

I just read the post from awhile ago .. the one about the girl and her bf having anal and then she got "crap" on him. Im worried about that too! I havent done anal yet but my bf wants to. When the penis goes in a womans anus .. does it usually get stuff on it ? Has that ever happened to anyone else. Id do anal but now Im scared that that will happen to me and my life will be over because I would be so humiliated .. I mean Ive had some embarrasing things happen to me during sex but thats one thing Id never live down. I know I want to use a condom if i do it .. 1. just because I think its sanitary and 2. for lubrication. Also is his penis going to smell like a dirty toilet after .. and what steps should I do for my first time .. if and when I actually do it. Hope I didnt make this sound disgusting.

Chow =)

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Registered: 08-10-2005
In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 6:47pm
I would like to know too? Someone please help us out here!!!
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In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 7:13pm

Okay...your guy KNOWS full well what he's asking for and he knows full well what comes out of a rectum. So, if he was THAT concerned, then he shouldn't be asking for it.

But if he wears a condom, which is always recommended for anal, then he won't have to worry about it. IF you aren't comfortable with the idea of possibly getting poop on his penis, then tell him no.

But anytime you put a finger, penis, or any object into an anus, then yes, it's possible to get excrement on that object.

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In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 7:17pm
has it happened to you Kat ?
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In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 7:23pm
Anal's not my thing and thankfully, not my DH's either but we do indulge in some digital play and yes, sometimes, you get a little dirty. Just goes with the territory.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 8:59pm

As Kat said, it's a chance you take with anal.


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Registered: 02-26-2001
In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 11:10pm

OK, after reading this thread and the previous one on the subject I have to ask a question. How many of the people who are appalled about a little feces showing up during anal sex ever changed a poopy diaper? Because I can tell you from experience that if you change enough of those you're going to get it on your hands and you'll find out that it's not the end of the world. I realize that having sex is not the same as changing a diaper, but feces is feces. As long as you wash up afterward and don't engage in any weird scatological rites, you'll be fine. Just remember that everything that comes out of your anus came in through your mouth, LOL.

BTW, the times I engaged in anal sex we never had any problem with feces, not that it would have really been a problem.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: sexynympho
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 11:31pm

You both know what's in there.....and if either of you doesn't want to find it, then you shouldn't go there.

That's one of the reasons to use a condom......to make clean-up easier, and to prevent infections. A condom won't provide lubrication.... and you need lubrication for anal sex.

If it's embarassing to you, then you shouldn't do it.

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Registered: 03-11-2005
In reply to: sexynympho
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 4:59am
Here is what we do. Have a BM about an hour or so before the anal encounter. Buy a Fleet Enema in the drug store. Empty the solution that comes with it . Rinse and refil with warm water. Take the enema. Then using a condom go to it using lots of lube. I also do this if my wife is going to massage my prostate. Works great.
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Registered: 05-27-2005
In reply to: sexynympho
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 2:40pm

OK ok... so this is what happened. One time my bf and I were really drunk and we had tons of sex that night including anal... after which we passed out. I woke up in the morning and on the floor i found a small piece of poo... haha it was really really small though.. i was a little grossed out and embarrassed! I never told him though.
After that i hesitated to have anal sex again for the next few weeks. But we've engaged in anal sex again many times and nothing like this happened again.
I did asked my partner though, if something like this happened would he be grossed out would totally flip out. He said no... it's kinda expected since you're going where the poop is. So that was a relief!

so that's my anal story ;-)

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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: sexynympho
Thu, 08-11-2005 - 3:41pm

Hi
DW and I have been engaging in anal for over six years, usually about once or twice a week. There was on time that it got really messy and she freaked out. I assured it was no big deal ( I have changed a few diapers before and even held a baby during a " blow-out"). We never use condoms but I do keep a washcloth handy to wipe excess lube off my hands and to clean up afterwards. Maybe 5 or 6 times has there ever been any poo on me afterwards. Just try to "go" sometime during the day. Just be aware that it can happen but its no big deal. If you have kids or babysat a baby it is nothing compared to a cheap diaper :(

mb