Anal discussion, again! please?

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Registered: 12-08-2007
Anal discussion, again! please?
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Wed, 12-19-2007 - 11:41pm

Ok, I know you guys and gals are going to LOVE to help me with this. Dh has been trying for YEARS to get me introduced and warmed up to the idea of anal. He has been treading very carefully for all these years, taking things very slowly, not doing anything to traumatize me and totally wreck his chances! Smart man...

So, I have learned to enjoy some anal play and I have gotten over the "EWE" factor. I have even managed some penetration (with me in charge of it) once or twice and have enjoyed it, but I'd like to be able to let him drive (so to speak ;)) and really relax and enjoy it. The trick to this, I know is to be super excited and really relaxed. Here's what I need help with; I told Dh that I am ready and willing to go for it, but I want him to get me so wound up that I am begging for it. He asked me how exactly to do that. (He is incredibly talented, I'm sure he's just trying to get me to do that painful communicating thing). SO, I was hoping you all would share with me what it takes to get you there. I have a really hard time articulating these kinds of things to him, but most of the time, when I read advice on these topics, I'm like, "yeah, that would totally work for me!", so I know you guys can help me out!

TIA ;)

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 8:52am

While my hubby doesn't do anal yet, the times that I could really beg him for it is when we are in a spooning or what I call a T position. I'm usually getting a lot of g-spot stimulation, things are very, very wet and parts of him are already stimulating my anus.





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Registered: 12-03-2007
Thu, 12-20-2007 - 9:24am
We are nowhere near trying anal, however the times she has seemed most aroused and the possibly of a little play arises is when we have had a lot of foreplay and are in the doggie position, that is when she is definitely most turned on and receptive to new things, plus the temptation is right there staring at me.

TGD
"Ability is of little account without opportunity"
TGD "Ability is of little account without opportunity"
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Registered: 12-26-2007
Fri, 01-04-2008 - 3:59pm

The only time that i really want it is when we are already having sex and im totally in to it. Im going to tell you my favorite way and the only way that dont hurt me at all is laying flat on my belly with him on top of me with lots of lube of course. Its really fun and once its in there it dont hurt. Good luck.