Anal discussion, again! please?
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| Wed, 12-19-2007 - 11:41pm |
Ok, I know you guys and gals are going to LOVE to help me with this. Dh has been trying for YEARS to get me introduced and warmed up to the idea of anal. He has been treading very carefully for all these years, taking things very slowly, not doing anything to traumatize me and totally wreck his chances! Smart man...
So, I have learned to enjoy some anal play and I have gotten over the "EWE" factor. I have even managed some penetration (with me in charge of it) once or twice and have enjoyed it, but I'd like to be able to let him drive (so to speak ;)) and really relax and enjoy it. The trick to this, I know is to be super excited and really relaxed. Here's what I need help with; I told Dh that I am ready and willing to go for it, but I want him to get me so wound up that I am begging for it. He asked me how exactly to do that. (He is incredibly talented, I'm sure he's just trying to get me to do that painful communicating thing). SO, I was hoping you all would share with me what it takes to get you there. I have a really hard time articulating these kinds of things to him, but most of the time, when I read advice on these topics, I'm like, "yeah, that would totally work for me!", so I know you guys can help me out!
TIA ;)

While my hubby doesn't do anal yet, the times that I could really beg him for it is when we are in a spooning or what I call a T position. I'm usually getting a lot of g-spot stimulation, things are very, very wet and parts of him are already stimulating my anus.
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The only time that i really want it is when we are already having sex and im totally in to it. Im going to tell you my favorite way and the only way that dont hurt me at all is laying flat on my belly with him on top of me with lots of lube of course. Its really fun and once its in there it dont hurt. Good luck.