anal help

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Registered: 05-21-2004
anal help
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Sun, 01-16-2005 - 8:54am
hi guys, theres sumthing i would like 2 know, you have helped me so much and i know i can rely on you 4 the right advice, my boyfriend and i want to have anal sex but we have done it b4 and it hurts so much, the other thing is im afraid ao a ' little accadent' happening if you know what i mean, how do i make sure it doesent happen because that is my biggest fear, hes already kinda went off my mum so i want him 2 b intrested again
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Registered: 07-22-2004
In reply to: nobimbo
Sun, 01-16-2005 - 9:16am

Thanks for your trust in this board, LOL, just remember that its never a replacement for the REAL right advice you'd get from your doc though.

Here's some perfectly helpful articles about anal that've helped just about anyone interested:

5 Myths of Anal Sex Uncovered
http://www.ivillage.com/relationships/experts/experts_by_month/articles/0,,413030_443231,00.html

6 Do's and Don'ts of Anal Sex
http://www.ivillage.com/relationships/experts/sexpro/articles/0,,189261_272744,00.html

Hope this helps. :)

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-21-2004
In reply to: nobimbo
Sun, 01-16-2005 - 9:27am
thanks 4 your help, it really put my mind at ease, but the one thing it didnt answer is how to keep it clean to avoid any accidents......
thanks xoxoxo
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Registered: 05-27-2004
In reply to: nobimbo
Sun, 01-16-2005 - 9:31am
You know what's in there, and if you can't deal with that, then you probably shouldn't be doing it. Some people give themselves enemas before they attempt it, but that only "cleans it" for the moment......feces are constantly moving thru the colon.
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Registered: 01-12-2005
In reply to: nobimbo
Mon, 01-17-2005 - 12:36am

Hello
I can relate about the mess. My DW and I have been doing it for about 5 yrs. and had only on time that it was bad. Try to "go" a little while before you have sex, if possible. To clean out a little more you might try an enema. Get a bulb syringe and use water (might want to apply some lubrication to). I make sure to have a dark colored cloth handy and to clean immediatly after withdrawl. Like someone wrote before, comes with the territory. Good luck.

mb