Anal Hurting

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Registered: 07-01-2004
Anal Hurting
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Wed, 09-21-2005 - 7:08pm

I was just wondering how you go about making anal not hurt as bad. I love it and i love how it feels but getting over that intial entry kills me..is there anyway to make this not hurt as bad or what? We use lots of lube and it still kills me..

Thanks,
Randi

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Registered: 12-04-2003
In reply to: raedwards15
Wed, 09-21-2005 - 7:14pm
Trust me I have tried and I think I did it once wher I could tolerate it but most of the time My husband cant even go in half and inch before I am like forget it . I could use the same advice. I know my husband loves it . he said it feels amazing when we can do it b/c it is so much tighter so it put alot pressure on his mr winkle .......
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: raedwards15
Wed, 09-21-2005 - 8:34pm

Have you started out with anal play with fingers and toys to get used to it and learn to relax with it.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: raedwards15
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 9:10am
Sounds like you or he is rushing that initial entry. Slow things down so that you can consciously relax your sphincter muscles as he penetrates. Just like at the dr's office when he or she does that rectal exam, relaxing makes that initial penetration much easier.
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Registered: 08-06-2004
In reply to: raedwards15
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 10:38am
try it missionary - Was the only position I could do it in at first.
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Registered: 11-08-2004
In reply to: raedwards15
Thu, 09-22-2005 - 2:18pm
My Bf always uses his finger first... I also have a jelly dildo (I guess thats what they are called...the soft ones) It's about his size. I also do that part myself. When it'ss first in, when it hurts I stop for a second and take it out and than do it once more and then it usually doesnt hurt when he enters. Plus make sure theres alot of lube on you AND his penis. I use KY Liquid it's the best for me. NEVER USE WARMING LUBE IT HURTS!!! which makes me want to make a post.... I think I will :-)