Anal Play

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Anal Play
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Sat, 06-18-2005 - 10:55am

Hi...this is my first post on this board....

i don't know how many people do this stuff...my DH loves pretty much any kind of anal play (on me)...when we were dating we did it all the time...but for the last year or so I just can't seem to do it without it hurting too bad....i don't know if it's all in my head or what...he's really gentle and doesn't try to force me to do it...and usually i have a vibrator to stimulate my clitoris....because I really want to please him because I know he likes this stuff do ya'll have any tips for me to enjoy it more (and if I can get into it I like it too -- if I can get it to stop hurting.....

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: doodlebug20
Sat, 06-18-2005 - 11:17am
Hi Doodlebug and welcome to the board.

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Registered: 04-25-2005
In reply to: doodlebug20
Sat, 06-18-2005 - 12:07pm
Yes -- i did enjoy it...but it always hurt when he first went in...and usually it is fine after he gets in...and yes he uses lube -- what kind would you recommend? We bought the anal lube from Xandria but it seems like it dries to fast or something...i have a plug that we've used one time...and i enjoy that -- it's the movement that hurts...i dunno...maybe i'm just scared that it'll hurt again and I get to tense...
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: doodlebug20
Sat, 06-18-2005 - 12:45pm
If you tense up because of the fear it might hurt, that could cause it to hurt.

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Registered: 04-25-2005
In reply to: doodlebug20
Sat, 06-18-2005 - 12:54pm
Okies -- we'll try those! Thanks!