anal sex

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Registered: 10-22-2005
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Tue, 02-27-2007 - 7:25am
I don't understand why anybody could like anal sex. Is it more of a man thing? There's a guy I know that I was intimate with and he would try to coax me into having anal but I wouldn't. It seems too gross and not very intimate. I like to look into the man's eyes when having sex and not have my back to him. I know that homosexuals do this but why would hetrosexuals want to? I've heard that it can be painful for the woman.
For all of you that have experienced it, what are your thoughts on it? If you haven't done it, would you?

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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: frustrated_12
Wed, 02-28-2007 - 2:49pm

My wife initiated it on me with her finger looking for the male g-spot.
You need to be patient and use lots of lube. Don't rush in to it. We are
still trying to incorporate it into our sex lives. On her, I use lots of
lube just by messaging her entrance. Eventually she tells me when to enter
her with my finger, then with my manhood.

My question is have any wives used a strap-on with their husbands and what was
their re-action on their part?

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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: frustrated_12
Wed, 02-28-2007 - 5:30pm

No, never did


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Registered: 01-24-2007
In reply to: frustrated_12
Wed, 02-28-2007 - 8:09pm

Thanks so much to all of you for your feedback. It is very helpful!!

I have one other question. My guy doesn't like to have IC during auntie flow's visit. Is anal a good alternative to that or is there a reason it couldn't be done during that time of the month???

Thanks again for all your honesty to my questions.

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Registered: 03-11-2005
In reply to: frustrated_12
Thu, 03-01-2007 - 5:11am
DW always uses an anal toy(Spectragels Vibrating Anal Tool, Anal E-Z Bend, Anal T or Anal Beads) to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms. I love it!!! We want to try a strap on next, but I doubt that it would be better than toys. By the way-toys work better than fingers. A strap on that looks interesting is on a number of sites is Bend over Beginner kit. It has 2 small silicone dildos that are interchangeable and a small vibrator for her.



Edited 3/2/2007 5:00 am ET by oldkinky
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Registered: 04-23-2004
In reply to: frustrated_12
Thu, 03-01-2007 - 8:44am

There's no reason why anal couldn't be done during your period.


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