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Anal Sex?
| Sat, 06-04-2005 - 2:13am |
I had anal sex with my fiance a while back. I was really drunk ( i never would have agreed otherwise ) and i remember it hurting very very badly.
He on the other hand enjoyed himself and would like to do it again. I don't want to have to chug a six pack in order for him to do it:) . Is there any way to make it less painful? Is it always painful? I know some women enjoy it and was just wondering if anyone had any pointers.
Thanks
He on the other hand enjoyed himself and would like to do it again. I don't want to have to chug a six pack in order for him to do it:) . Is there any way to make it less painful? Is it always painful? I know some women enjoy it and was just wondering if anyone had any pointers.
Thanks

I have never had pain with anal, but it was something I wanted to do.
My fiance had been asking me for a while, I started by looking on the internet after hearing him moaning like crazy about wanting to try anal. My search helped alot, it meant that I was more aware of what I may or may not get, I looked round message boards like this though never posted anything. We took it at my pace over a period of time, working up to the penetration gradulally, in the exact same way we did when I lost my virginity.
Taking it at my pace meant that if I was not enjoying it that was the end. He would ask a couple of times a night to get me to try anal sex. It did hurt the first time because we went to fast. I gave into his pressure in order for him to try something that I wanted to try, and also to try a new experince.
It's a preference that is upto you. If the very thought of it turnd you off then it is definatly not for you. If you decide no then it is final, end of and that is also seen in the eyes of the law. But you could decide to try it. Just ensure that you use lots of Lube and also take in the advice of chezypoofs28.
Good Luck
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Anal sex don't have to hurt, go to a sex store in your area and get Anal Ease. Have your man put some on the outside of your hole let it sit for 2-3 min( this will make it numb) while you wait for it to set in you can proform oral with him. when the 2-3 min is up or when you think it is up have him SLOWLY put the head in first ( to make yourself comfortable place a pillow under your breast and rest your chin on it that is what I do) once you feel comfortable with the head in have him slowly inch his way in. Trust me it is Great, I love anal sex ONLY if I have enough anal Ease or you can try KYjelly. I believe you can go to kyjelly .com and get a free sample, Im not sure of the web address. Good luck
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