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| Tue, 01-15-2008 - 11:27pm |
My boyfriend wants to have anal sex but I'm a bit hesitant about it. I'm afraid that it'll really hurt and I won't enjoy it. What is a good way to prepare for this? and what were your experiences like when you tried it?

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Welcome to the board, md20.
Anal sex shouldn't be painful if done properly. If you do decide to give this a try, your BF has to let you be in charge of penetration .... he needs to listen to what you're saying to him, and he has to be able to go about this slowly. If there is pain, it's your body's way of telling you something is wrong -- and you should stop. Also, don't use numbing agents -- since that will mask any pain you might feel.
Here are some great articles on anal sex:
Adventurous Intimacy: 6 Do's and Don'ts of Anal Sex
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,b31g,00.html
I want to try anal sex
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/experts/carnal/qas/0,,638358_602026,00.html
5 Myths of Anal Sex Uncovered
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,jdgc,00.html
Second Opinions: Anal Sex
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/0,,7558qs10,00.html
It's very helpful if you're highly aroused when you do try anal sex, and it's very important that you use a lot of lubrication. Some people also take time to prepare for anal sex prior to penetration (for weeks). Using fingers or toys designed for anal penetration, you can slowly build up to being able to accept larger items, and it can give you an idea of what to expect when you do decide to try anal sex. The more relaxed you are when you try, the more enjoyable the experience will be. Hope the articles are helpful, but if you have more questions, feel free to ask.
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Edited 1/16/2008 2:12 pm ET by cl-misty_mae
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Thanks for the heads up, all fixed!
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I think you will find the majority of the women on these boards that actually participate in anal sex also find it pleasurable.
I wouldn't worry about how many others do it or enjoy it -- if it feels right for you and your SO then that is all that should matter.
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I always think that it is uncomfortable when it first goes in but after that yes it feels good and alot of woman do have very intense orgasms.
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