anal sex

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Registered: 09-18-2007
anal sex
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Tue, 09-18-2007 - 12:28pm

OKay guys and gals i need your help....


Me and my fience have been haveing anal sex for a while now and i knew it was suppose to hurt the first couple times we did it but it has been at least 6 months now so why does it still hurt??? it feels good but then it makes me cry cause it hurts to so please if u can help me out please do thank you

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: sexiesarah24
Tue, 09-18-2007 - 1:26pm

Welcome to the board sexiesarah24.

I don't know where you learned that anal sex "should" hurt, but if done properly, it doesn't hurt. Pain is your body's way of telling you that something is wrong, so if you are feeling pain, you need to stop, even if you think it feels good at the same time.

Here are a few articles on anal sex that you might want to read:

5 Myths of Anal Sex Uncovered
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,jdgc,00.html

Adventurous Intimacy: 6 Do's and Don'ts of Anal Sex
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,b31g,00.html

Second Opinions: Anal Sex
What you should know
http://health.ivillage.com/sexualhealth/0,,7558qs10,00.html

Since you can cause serious injury to your insides by having painful anal sex, please do take the time to read these articles and share the information with your BF. It may be that he needs to learn some do's and don'ts as well.

If you have pain that doesn't go away, then you really should see your doctor to get checked out.










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Registered: 07-17-2007
In reply to: sexiesarah24
Thu, 09-20-2007 - 11:33pm

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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: sexiesarah24
Sat, 09-22-2007 - 10:11am

I agree with Misty and Scott, when done properly anal sex should NEVER hurt not even the first time you have anal sex.

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