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| Sun, 06-24-2007 - 8:19pm |
Okay...Ive been wanting to try anal sex & i'm not scared of it hurting... I just worry about my "stuff" getting on the condem, haha. which i think would be embarrassing. Can anyone from person experience tell me if I can expect that or if there is anything else that has the potenial of embarrassing me?? Do guys even mind any of that??? I'd think it'd be a mood killer... Maybe Im just wrong & overthinking this...

Hi cc6204,
Welcome to the club of anal sex. I believe that you will enjoy anal sex in future because you have been wanting to try it and you are not scared of the pain (actually it is not painfull at all if you and your partner do it right). Well, from my experience, I have never got any "stuff" on my penis after I had anal sex with my DW. If you have a normal daily bowel movement, your rectum is actually empty. You should not worry about it so much. If you still feel uncomfortable with it, you can have an enema beforehand (few hours before anal sex) to clean up your rectum.
I cannot speak for all guys, but, as a guy who like anal sex very much, I really really do not mind any of that. It is a natural thing. However, I understand that it may embarrass you if it really happen. I think daily bowel movement or enema (if you need) is enough. Enjoy it! Don't worry so much.
Given where you are going to be playing, it is possible. To lessen the chances, just make sure you shower and clean beforehand. Some people also take a small dose enema several hours beforehand.
If your guy is willing to give this a try, chances are, he doesn't mind the possibility of a mess. The condom will provide for quick and easy clean up too.
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