Anal sex--basic questions
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Anal sex--basic questions
| Thu, 07-07-2005 - 3:31pm |
Just got into anal sex with DH & after some working up to it, I'm really enjoying it. I can have an O just from him rubbing his penis against my anus & penetrating me anally, no clitoral stimulation, & it's really intense. But, being new to it, I have some questions from more experienced folks. First, does anyone do "enemas" first? Or after? I haven't & he isn't using a condom (he did the first time but now he washes right away). If I should clean myself out with an enema, what should I use, just water? I'm sometimes worried I might have an "accidental soiling" with semen if it doesn't come out soon after sex. Does that happen to anyone or am I just worried for nothing? Anything anyone want to share about anal sex for a newbie?

An enema MIGHT help if you do it immediately before.....things are constantly moving in your colon....so cleaning it out now won't help if you're not going to do it NOW. Warm water should be sufficient if you plan to do it. Also remember, using enemas too often will mess up your "regularity".
AFTER? Why? Unless your anus is injured, or damaged, whatever is in there isn't going to come out "accidentally".....after all, it's only a few teaspoons full. Your anus is tight for a reason.....to hold everything in until it's ready to come out.
I've never had an enema before anal sex.