Anal Sex--How to....

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Registered: 06-10-2003
Anal Sex--How to....
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Wed, 07-28-2004 - 5:04pm
My boyfriend really wants to try anal sex with me. Although it doesnt sound like that much fun, Im willing to try it. Im just wondering if there is anything I need to know about it...like is lub always needed, whats the best position for it, ect...Im a bit clueless on the subject. Anyones two cents would be much appreciated. THANKS!

ps. For the women out there, does it hurt really bad or what? Ive heard some people really like it but I dont know how it could feel that good.

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Registered: 05-18-2004
Wed, 07-28-2004 - 5:20pm
I happen to love anal sex. Yes, use plenty of lube. The best positions to start out in are spooning, or perhps him on his side and you on your back. I have tried starting out in doggy and it hurts. Once your body adjusts to him being in there, you can move into any position. Relaxation is key. Either you or he can manually stimulate you before entering to get you warmed up, and you should slowly guide his penis in. It really is best if you do. I have found either slowly inserting it, or having him slowly moving in and out and gradually going deeper both work for me. Continue to stimulate yourself throughout this or you may tense up again. Lately, we have been in a position where I am on my back, and he is sitting but leaning back. He slips two fingers into my vagina while moving his penis and I am stimulating my clit. I have the most amazing orgasms that way ;-)

Leticia