Anal: What's the attraction?
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Anal: What's the attraction?
| Wed, 11-10-2004 - 7:57am |
It's obvious that a lot of posters enjoy anal sex. I did try it years ago and it didn't do much for me. What's the attraction? If there is a perfectly good vagina available, why would someone opt for anal? I'm not being judgemental, just curious. Maybe I should try it again.

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He would never try to make me do something that I didn't want to do or tell me than an ex did it to persuade me to do it.
I really think that you need to seek some counselling because I think you have very low self esteem.
Your whole post is so sad because that is so not what real life is about. You must be in a situation where the guys and your b/f's are really unlike the majority of normal men. Sure, anal sex can be enjoyable for the men, and some men do want it regularly but I think that the vast majority of men view it as something that might have once in a blue moon. And there are lots of men that aren't interested in it. Myself, I don't know one guy in my circle of friends that would expect anal sex regularly. They also respect their women much more than the men that you know.
I think that you realise that any guy that forces you to do something during sex is not worth being with. You should realise that sex about your enjoyment and your self-respect as well. You have the right to demand respect and demand equality in the bedroom. You are not some sex toy that a man can demand things of. If he demands and forces you to do something then I would be pleased if he left me when I didn't agree to his demands because it would save me the hassle of telling him to go away. It's simply not worth putting up with a man that behaves like that.
It's so sad that you see sex and relationships in this way.
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