...and then he pulled out a...
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| Wed, 08-25-2004 - 5:27pm |
One of the recent discussions on this board made me curious...
You've met a great guy, made love a few times, everything is going great both sexually and relationship-wise. You had a few brief discussions about sex along the way and he knows that you're pretty game to try anything within reason in the bedroom. Maybe he knows that you've used sextoy/s or that you would be game enough to try them.
You're in bed one night, he reaches over to the nightstand and retrieves something from the drawer - it's a vibrator. It's not yours, it's definitely his.
What thoughts run through your mind?

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Leticia
EWWWWWW!!! GrrrOSS!
I have no objection to toys, and I'd have no objection to DH having some vibrating thingy or other and us both getting some pleasure out of it. But that's **DH**! I would never take a chance on some toy that's been inside some other woman(en). If he's whippin' it out for me, he's whipped it out for others.
I wouldn't let him use it on me. Guess I don't share my toys very well, eh?
I had the same thoughts as you Phat.
Some vibrators have a gelly outside, which can potentially hold bacteria.
>>Even the doctor's speculum has been inside other women.<<
All the Dr's I have seen use disposable, one time use speculums. Besides, can you sterilize a vibrator at home like you can at the Dr's office? They use those high heat steam thingies.
Leticia
Bachelor's don't exaclty have a reputation for cleanliness ;o)
Leticia
>>Assuming that the vibrator is clean - what's the difference?<<
I think that it's psychological more than a matter of hygiene. You simply don't want to use such an intimate object like a vibrator that has been used on another woman/women. When you think about it, we all know that a tongue or fingers can be pretty unhygenic even when clean.
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