Another fantasy question/Whore

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Registered: 11-06-2004
Another fantasy question/Whore
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Sat, 11-06-2004 - 8:13am
When a man wants you to dress up and act like a whore with the caveat that it may become extremely offensive, and he treats you pretty offensively, does that mean that this is how he would treat a whore? Getting to the 'why'
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Registered: 05-27-2004
Sat, 11-06-2004 - 9:50am
What do you mean by "offensive"? Do you mean you're expected to perform some sexual act that is offensive to you? If so, you can always say no. You don't have to be pretending to be a "whore" to be asked to do something you don't want to do. If it offends you, you say no, and that should be the end of it. Exactly what do you think "whores" do in the bedroom? Anal sex, golden showers, rimming, S&M, domination? Guess what? Lots of "normal" women do these things, and enjoy them. I'm also sure that there are professionals who refuse to do some of these things. Maybe this man has never been with a woman who will do any of these things because they're inhibited and repressed, and he simply wants to try some of it. That's his right, just as it's your right to refuse.

Have you ever heard the old saying......"a man wants a woman who's a lady in public, and a whore in the bedroom"? I think most men, even if they've never been with a professional, think that these women will do anything that's asked of them, and conversely, many UNprofessional women are shy, inhibited, and unwilling to try anything new. Many men AND women have thoughts about doing things that they're unable to do in real life.....and there's nothing wrong with exploring those things. If it helps to pretend that you're a "lady of the night", then go for it.

As always, we're free to ASK for anything. But, if the answer is no, then that should be the end of it. Some things are better left as fantasies.

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Registered: 10-13-2004
Sat, 11-06-2004 - 3:46pm
>>it may become extremely offensive<<

The guy is a nutter, and not someone who I'd date. Thankfully, I've never dated a man who wanted to do extremely offensive stuff with me.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Sat, 11-06-2004 - 4:00pm
I have no clue if that is how they would treat someone, but no one would become offensive to me whether they are playing out a fantasy or not.

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