another orgasm question

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Registered: 03-04-2007
another orgasm question
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Tue, 06-19-2007 - 6:49pm

I have never experienced an orgasm while having sex with a guy, but I "think" I have felt an orgasm while touching/plasuring myself alone.

If I was to exprience an orgasm with a guy, would it be the same feeling I feel when I'm alone?

Thanks.

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Registered: 08-01-2006
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 8:17pm
Well, for me personally, it feels better with a man then alone.



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Registered: 03-08-2004
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 8:52pm

Orgasms for the same person can feel completely different at different times during sex, different during masturbation, different during what kind of sex, they can be more intense, more subtle, more of

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Tue, 06-19-2007 - 11:36pm
Probably not. Masturbation is a purely "mechanical" act. Rub the right spot, it feels good. Orgasms during sex with a man involve a lot more than "mechanics".....or hopefully they do. They involve "feelings" and that involves the brain, your main sex organ.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Wed, 06-20-2007 - 7:03am

Welcome to the board luvs2run.

I think there are similar characteristics that you will recognize, but I don't think that all orgasms are the same. It's not necessarily because masturbation will produce a different feel to the orgasm, it's because each one has its' own intensity.



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Registered: 03-04-2007
Fri, 06-22-2007 - 7:41pm

Thanks for all your answers. I need to get this off my shoulders !!!!!!!

My guy friend was engaged 4 years ago, (I met him 2 yrs ago). He tried getting back with his ex a few times with no luck, so now all of a sudden he is saying I look good and treating me differently. Well, maybe he's not, and I just see it that way because I've liked him for so long. Wouldn't it be hysterical if we end up together and he's the one who makes me orgasm? I'm almost 32 and haven't had one yet. I can't stop thinking about it. He said he would call me to hang out soon and I am waiting. It's only been 3 days!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sat, 06-23-2007 - 7:00am

Just a word of caution, you can psych yourself out if you think too much about the orgasm. If something does happen with this friend, try to relax and just see where it takes you. Let your mind enjoy the feelings & sensations, don't think about having an orgasm. That will usually backfire.

Keep us posted ;-)



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