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| Tue, 06-07-2005 - 1:34pm |
im dating a guy whos really well endowed, i pretty much am learning the art of giving head on him, can u ladies give any advice on techniques kristin

Kristin, it's the same answer as always. You have to ask HIM what he likes, and what he doesn't like. Every guy is different, (size not withstanding) they've all got their favorite things, and they have NO problem telling you what they like. What this guy likes may be completely different than any guy you will ever meet, which is why you have to ask every new partner. Some like it fast, some like it slow. Some like more pressure, some like less......believe it or not, some like to feel teeth, though most guys don't like that at all.
There is no shame in asking.....that's the only way to find out what HE likes.
What one guy loves and enjoys doesn't mean another guy will like it at all.
Sex is about trial and error...what works for one, won't for another.
IF you're worried that he expects you to take his whole erection into your mouth and throat and you can't comfortably, then don't. IF he's very large, I'm sure he's not expecting that anyway.
Concentrate on the head, using one well-lubed hand on the shaft and he should enjoy himself. Ask him questions before and after and you'll learn how to please him. He's the expert on that.