Any exhibitionist tendencies?

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Any exhibitionist tendencies?
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Tue, 08-02-2005 - 6:47pm

Do any of you have a desire to be an exhibitionist, as least once in awhile? I used to live in an apartment with only a small space between my building and the one next door. A bunch of guys lived next door, one floor up, and I'm sure they could see down into my livingroom. My GF at the time and I used to have sex on the livingroom floor. I was sure the guys could watch us, and I told my GF that. She didn't mind at all, and even took me back to that spot on occasion.

My ex-wife and I took a trip once and stayed at a hotel. She was on top, moving up and down with abandon. I noticed that someone across the road could see us through our window. She didn't stop, and even admitted afterwards that the thought someone might be watching us was arousing.

Anybody else get into exhibitionism sometimes?

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Registered: 01-02-2005
Tue, 08-02-2005 - 8:48pm

Well, I'd like to "show" as an enticement to sex.

I've had two women recently remark, in clothed conversation, that its pretty difficult to just ignore an erect penis.

So I figure that if I "show" as semi-erect it might encourage "someone" to start "something".

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Registered: 07-10-2003
Tue, 08-02-2005 - 10:25pm

I thought I did...turns out I'm still a little shyer than I thought.

My ex and I were at a park at midnight and had sex on the hood of my car. The next time we went there (a different section), we almost with our pants down because the police pulled in right behind us - they wanted to let us know the park closed at 10. A couple months later we went back to the original spot to do it, and I was so worried about getting caught that I couldn't enjoy it.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Tue, 08-02-2005 - 11:55pm

Yes and No. Depends on who we were showing off to, I guess.

There was one night a while ago. My partner and I had gone to a function/event thing and I had been working 18 hour days (a long story). I was so dead tired that I had to go back to the Hotel after the thing finished at midnight. She stayed on at the after-match party to talk to some of the music reps and recording bigwigs afterwards.

I get woken up at 2.30am with a BJ. She was home and horney after having had some of the music bosses seriously hit on her. Boy, was it a session. We ended up with her leaning against the full length glass window that overlooked the carpark and streets in front of the hotel with me behind her. It was 2.00am, but anyone that happened to be going past only had to look up a couple of floors and they would have clearly seen us illuminated by the street lights.

So, not full-on and really blatantly public, but all the same it was a bit of a thrill...

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Registered: 06-14-2002
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 8:30am

Yes..... I love to get in our pool in the back yard with my wife late at night and typically I wear just my birthday suit. I also have been known to use a webcam sometimes with online friends.

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Registered: 05-01-2003
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 9:47am
I guess that because I enjoy nudity and because it doesn't worry me too much if people see me, means that I have become an exhibitionist. Elaine
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Wed, 08-03-2005 - 10:59am
I have fantasies about it, but I'm not exhibitionistic by nature, so I've never had any desire to make it a reality. My DH and I flash each other but we've never purposefully allowed ourselves to be watched by strangers. And we've had sex in our backyard, late at night and public places, but wouldn't do it with people watching.
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Registered: 05-27-2005
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 12:32pm
I know it arouses me when we have our blinds opened and it's dark outside, but we have our lights on inside and we're getting busy right in front of our window.
But bf on the other hand tends to close all the blinds most of the time, i don't think he enjoys strangers seeing us.
I never communicated my fantasy to him... I'd love to have sex w/ my bf when someone's watching us, definately arousing!
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Registered: 11-26-2004
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 1:02pm

No, and DH moreso. I get turned on by the secret of sex...tee hee I like the feeling that we're doing something so private that we have to hide it. ;-) I like showing off to the one I'm with though.




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Wed, 08-03-2005 - 8:47pm

No, it does nothing for me at all or for Dh.


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Registered: 11-22-2004
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 9:33pm
It's funny I am such an intensely sexual person, get me behind locked doors 1 on 1 and you won't regret it but I have no, absolutely NO, exhibitionistic tendencies. I can't even make out in a car, on the darkest night, b/c it's not private enough. OTOH my man could care less -- the other day he went to answer the door for a UPS delivery in the nude. I'm not sure whether he was leaning around the door or what, but that made me crack up. Plus he will pee anywhere as if it were nothing, it doesn't matter if there are people around it seems to me. I don't know why I have such a phobia of exhibitionism but I do.

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