Anybody else ever have thought orgasms?

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Anybody else ever have thought orgasms?
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Mon, 11-21-2005 - 4:45pm

So, I'm just wondering, does anyone else ever have orgasms just by thinking about sex? And before you ask, yes, I am sure that they are orgasms. They feel pretty much the same as the orgasms that I have whenever I am physically stimulated. I would also like to add that I am very easily aroused. I get wet at the drop of a hat. I'm not sure if you needed to know that, but I think it might be relevant.

Maybe one of the sexperts here could help me out with this. Honestly, I don't see how it's physically possible that this could happen. Does anyone else know why this happens to me (not that I'm complaining), and not to others?

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Mon, 11-21-2005 - 5:04pm

I've heard this before and what I've discovered is that typically, it's NOT occuring just by thought alone. You may be contracting your thigh or vaginal muscles and bringing yourself to orgasm with actual stimulation that you're unaware of. I know that many women can do that and automatically begin these contractions when they become aroused. I would suggest trying it with your legs apart to see if you are truly getting off by thought alone.

I know that I orgasm in my sleep with no physical stimulation but not just by conscious thought alone.

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Mon, 11-21-2005 - 7:00pm
been there...do that often!! thought it was just me. it happens quite often, especially the morning after a night of an out of this world love making session with my man. all it takes is to think about it, and on come the butterflies in my stomach, the smile in my heart and then the unthinkable while I am driving to work.... i always call my man when i arrive to work to tell him of my unbelievable experience and how i can not wait to get home. i never make it home,(or to work as far as that goes) without having another experience. I guess we are blessed....
happy trails..... mine are!!!
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Tue, 11-22-2005 - 5:33pm
I also get aroused very easily, and can get a long way toward nirvana just on what's going on inside my brain, but ultimately it does require some muscle tensing or touching to take me over the top. Perhaps it is a good thing that I cannot just think my way to orgasm or I would probably be orgasming all the time! Elaine
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Tue, 11-22-2005 - 5:57pm

Hi,I don't actually have one but in the last year I have been so aroused all the time it drives me nuts. I will be 46 in 3 weeks:( Hormones? I also started working for an excavating company with lots of men and flirting, is that it? All I know is I don't have to worry about my sex drive slowing down it's increased to the point where it's driving me nuts. Is it menopause? I tried looking it up online but all that I can find are ways to help a womnen increase her drive. It's constantly on my mind. Any thoughts?

The Unicorn

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Tue, 11-22-2005 - 6:10pm

I am 47. I have always had a high sex-drive, but I had a super-surge for two years prior to actually beginning menopause(my periods have been sporadic for the past four years). Like you, my body just wouldn't quit. I was having sex and masturbating more than I had at any other period in my life. I am back to my normal self now... tee hee

As far as having orgasms without any physical stimulation, I have had a few. Usually it's due to intense teasing or during intense mental stimulation(porn). Of course, they are preceded by muscle contraction, because that's how an orgasm builds. The squeezing in is involuntary for me though(I know this because usually I'm trying NOT to orgasm). I have also awoken in the midst of an orgasm(having sexual dreams), and as far as I can tell, there was no stimulation. Even if there is minimal stimulation - it's all good.;-)

Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
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Tue, 11-22-2005 - 9:15pm
As a man, all I can say is that you super orgasmic women don't realize how lucky you are. I had to work years to get my wife to have orgasms and that was with a great deal of manual stimulation. I have heard of women who orgasm while they are jogging. I guess it is the stimulation from the back and forth motion of the legs.


Edited 11/26/2005 7:25 pm ET by gigi_1000
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Fri, 11-25-2005 - 9:51am

Funny, I've met alot men online that say their wifes are cold in the sack. Guess we are the lucky ones.

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Sat, 11-26-2005 - 7:26pm
Unicorn, the women who are "cold fish" would not want to be on a board like this!!
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Sun, 11-27-2005 - 7:37am

Big 10-4 on that one, gigi!

Problem is, they read to help discover some new trick from the rest of 'em that'll "hopefully" make things better. They'd get a REAL kick out of the super-sex ladies that post on the male boards too.

By the multiple boards I've had a chance to read from time to time, both men AND women are wisely investigating more and more what they can do themselves 'along with' partner improvements, 'as opposed to' increasing just partner improvements only. That healthy balance has always been key in my book.

 

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Sun, 11-27-2005 - 7:41am

I've read about that several times, mostly from women. Apparently, it DOES happen...but by what I remember reading, they really needed the perfect setting/circumstances.

More unusual than not, but I wouldn't say it was that rare. I don't recall having that knack myself, but then again, I probably never tried hard enough?, lol. Couldn't tell ya.

 

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