Anyone appreciate hair down there?

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Anyone appreciate hair down there?
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Mon, 09-27-2004 - 5:00pm
Does anyone actually appreciate the presence of, and appearance of pubic hair? After reviewing many of the message posts within this site and hearing from different people in public it seems like everyone is on a mission to end the presence of all bikini hair on earth forever. I find pubic hair to be physically appealing and am especially interested to hear some replies from others within the 20-30 age bracket of which I am a part. I have no issue with maintanence, but find the brazilian method a bit much. I need to know that I am not the only one left who sees value in keeping hair down there. I'm looking for as many posts as possible, please fill me in.


Edited 9/29/2004 9:34 pm ET ET by flyguy2004

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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 6:11pm
Women are beautiful no matter what- and Im a woman saying this. (not a lesbo or bi just stating the facts!) However women can look at other women and see flaws to where men doesnt see all of those flaws because seeing flaws is superficial and surface only. However I feel like I look better with my lower half shaven into a landing strip. Its more attractive then hair growing ungroomed- it just looks less clean and the doctors will tell too- that it is healthier for a woman to shave herself down below then not. I would find a patern you are comfortable with - example: I know a girl who shaved a patern of NY onto that spot and loved it- men did too- its what ever makes you feel sexiest then go with it! Try different things if you dont like shaving completly- thats why I do the landing- it looks the best on me I believe- but who am I to say- Colin Farrell loves a woman not groomed/shaven down there- yikes! All men and women are different! I praticularily like myself shaven- most men would agree- stacy
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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 6:27pm
The only thing I disagree with you is - and Im not saying I totally disagree, however, If he prefers her shaven down there then thats fine because its him who she is trying to get aroused. I have- and I know this is bad for me sometimes- but I have told some of the men Ive dated that I like a little stubble on their face because Im attracted to them being alittle more rough looking sometimes. They do it because they want to attract me and Im the only one they want to attract. Shaving down below I believe is the same thing-its not changing or altering who they are as people but its making your mate more attracted to you in bed. I dont find anything wrong with that if its only something he sees and shes comfortable in his attraction to that- if you know what I mean. I would disagree with her shaving down there if she thought she looked ugly down below for doing that but its her body and you should never feel ugly about yourself shaven or not. Everyone has to compromise for the one they love- It goes both ways and thats what a relationship is about- compromise. Im sure shes asked him to do things he didnt want to do but compromised with her and it went both ways to sometimes satisfy their partners- however the only time it becomes a problem is when you compromise with who you are as a person to fit his needs- ( meaning beliefs or strong ethics) Sorry for the debate but thats what makes these posts so good- right? Hope you can get back to me! stacy
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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 6:36pm
Have you ever seen an Irish girl not completly shaven? Pretty scary! I just wanted to say that cuz Im a Irish girl. Not saying thats a bad thing but it gets out of control if you know what I mean! That sure as hell wasnt sexy to me- I hope you people are talking about groomed somewhat and no landing strip. Gotta hold your own around the bikini line- or do ya? I hope so but you never know-
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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 6:52pm
RIGHT ON! Sorry but had to post my message to you! You have helped me out before in other posts- love what you have to say- especially this one! I debated something else you said on this post even though youve helped me in the past with other issues, but you are totaly right here, it is all about who you are inside and you have a terrific husband! But I guess thats why we are all here- to post our problems and for others to help. But you are great with your words and I hope she hears you beyond my debate with your prior post on this subject. She does need to know that she can not and shall not change herself to make her sugnificant other happy if it compromises her beliefs.( I dont know if the pubic hair contributes to her belief system but if it does she should not shave!- ha!) But if you compromise yourself in other ways its healthy- right? I dont know but just wanted you to know that you have alot of good things to say and that its highly respected! stacy
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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 7:08pm
Change in the way you groom down there is like a change in your hair style, however pubic hair seems to grow back the fastest! I think change is good as well, however, Ive always was fasinated with the way I look down there with less hair. Its just more to see and I like the way I look so why compromise? However if a man were to ask me to completely grow it out with out shaving- Id still be comfortable because I think later I would ask him to grow out the shadow on his face in return for the compromise- mine is a better bargain because nobody gets to see what I have but him underneath but if me and him are both comfomfortable with it, its all compromise! Its not all about changing you for him or her its about making your mate more happier with what he is making love to at the time. However if it makes the woman more uncomfortable in bed then its not a good idea to do what their sugnificant other tells you turns them on! If you are hairy and you love it- not comfortable with being less then dont do it- I would only tell a man to cut his long hair on his head if I was forced to grow my pubic hair out!
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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 7:20pm
Diff person- Preference is all about being human- no you may not state it but communication is what makes a relationship right? I like to tell the person up front when I meet them what I like and If they change their ways to compromise with mine- oops Ill learn it later and it was probably a big mistake but in little ways - fine and Ill know it right away however, if they do me no wrong ( in my terminology) through out- Im happier. So the moral of the story- dont change for others unless it compromises on your beliefs however if its a simple thing like pubic hair? Oh my... Isnt what makes us get along is compromise? Like its a bad thing to please your partner in bed! Who else is going to see it?
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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 7:45pm
Why slam anybody on this post? Why are you here? Yea- somebody like her could probably give you some good advice! Oops did I say that? Do you want to know why Im here? Probably shouldnt be Im 28 and I am a model- but single to my liking. I have dated NFL football players, celebs etc... and I still dont understand men completely because Ive been hurt before- probably from my preference! However, to nock the ones who are more qualified then you are at answering others problems then, its foolish. You can debate on this website but you can not be cruel! What this post all boils down to is self respect and the respect you give others! Whether its a boyfriend/ girlfriend or a friend! Give them the same respect and maybe you wont hear me or anyone complaining about you in the end! Hope I helped you with your problem, stacy
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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 7:52pm

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Sat, 11-20-2004 - 9:00pm

I haven't checked this thread in ages, but I'll just post this reply to a question taoist asked ages ago:

>taoistnovice said:
>>westridge said:
>>I like the look, I prefer it vastly during oral sex, and the increased sensation
>>during intercourse alone is worth it."
>Do you mean you prefer the increased sensation of trimmed vs shaved?<

Just a refresher: My partner trims up top but shaves her vulva so that everything is bare from the clitoris down. I shave around the base of my penis and give the rest a bit of a trim. We enjoy the smooth skin-on-skin sensation during intercourse when both partners are freshly trimmed/shaven. It's a unique sensation almost comparable to the first time that you have intercourse without a condom. You know how it felt the same, but better too? It's the same when there isn't any hair in the way. Difficult to describe but awesome in practice.

My partner usually lets it grow out for a few weeks rather than regularly shaving and after a few days the sensation begins to lessen as the hair gets longer. So I would say that shaved is best. Trimmed is good, but not quite as good as that first shaven time!

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Sat, 11-20-2004 - 9:07pm
The whole discussion about women shaving their pubic hair and looking like a child is rediculous. They look no more like a child than a man looks like a child if he shaves his face.

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