Anyone appreciate hair down there?

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Registered: 09-22-2004
Anyone appreciate hair down there?
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Mon, 09-27-2004 - 5:00pm
Does anyone actually appreciate the presence of, and appearance of pubic hair? After reviewing many of the message posts within this site and hearing from different people in public it seems like everyone is on a mission to end the presence of all bikini hair on earth forever. I find pubic hair to be physically appealing and am especially interested to hear some replies from others within the 20-30 age bracket of which I am a part. I have no issue with maintanence, but find the brazilian method a bit much. I need to know that I am not the only one left who sees value in keeping hair down there. I'm looking for as many posts as possible, please fill me in.


Edited 9/29/2004 9:34 pm ET ET by flyguy2004

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Registered: 07-06-2004
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 4:07pm

A couple days ago, I had the priviledge of being with two different women the same day, but at different times. One was natural and the other completely shaved, so I can comment on hair. LOL. Also, for the first time in my life, I had previously shaved the fur which grew half-way up the shaft.

Natural Lady had the pheromones in her fur, and the scent of a woman. Her dark fur obscured her vulva from view. Her hair had to be parted for oral. Maybe I didn't do it right, but repeated complete withdrawl and reentry pulled in her hairs during the long session. They were static against and in her, but my movement against them caused red chaffing on my sides.

Shaved Lady had much less scent. All her externals were in full view. Oral was very easy against her naked skin. Did the same long slow repeated complete withdrawl and reentry. We did stick together when fully coupled. It was fantastic when slowly pulling apart, her naked lips would cling to my shaved shaft and snap back at a point. During full penetration, I could feel her lips all along the shaft without the hair insulating the experience.

I'd say sticking together is a good thing

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Registered: 11-26-2004
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 4:20pm
I have been having sex for thirty years and NOT ONCE, did my pubic hair ever get sucked up with insertion. Pray tell am I the odd man out here, or has this been a common occurrence during intercourse? Sounds painful if you ask me. I mean if him inserting is going to pull on my hair, there's gonna be a lot of screaming and ceasing of that act. In fact, I would think that sex would be void of intercourse altogether. ;-) How has it been for all of you during intercourse? Ever get the hair pulled in?
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Registered: 10-13-2004
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 4:20pm

Because of my own feelings on the subject, I can clearly see BOTH sides of the arguement. That is, someone who *really* wants their partner to be a particular way - and also the personal choice aspect.

On one side, agreeing with Flyguy. From where I stand, I love a man with pubic hair. And while I could grudgingly live with being a lover of a shaved one, it would not bring me the pleasure that a guy with hair does. So, I would hope that if he shaved - that he would stop doing so for me.

On the other side is personal choice, a la Tish and Para. If I met a man who wanted me to shave, no matter how much I cared for him - and how important it was to him, I wouldn't do it. I strongly dislike the feel, the look and the maintenance.

So there you are: a woman who happily admits to double standards. I hope he'd do what *I* like, but would refuse to do what he'd like ;-)

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Wed, 02-02-2005 - 4:34pm

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Wed, 02-02-2005 - 6:13pm
Nope, never happened with us either.
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Wed, 02-02-2005 - 6:35pm

Although I'd still prefer flyguy to answer for himself, I always appreciate your thoughts nonetheless. Your quote was:

>>You and Tish , etc. keep insisting that it is entirely a personal choice . I'm not sure that that is entirely true...<<

After thinking about it, you're right indeed. Personal grooming is NOT a personal choice anymore. For example, if your lady felt the desire at anytime in the future to groom differently than normal, and yet she already knew you wouldn't like it because of your known preference that you felt so strongly about...

...then you're right...

...her personal grooming choice may be too influenced by known strong preference right there...

...whereas my own wife, for example, wouldn't have that pressure issue whatsoever.

So yes, I DO see the difference after all and I do see your point very clearly now. Thank you for the correction.

Don't be a stranger, k? You're too cool around these boards, and I'm sure the new posters here would just love to hear about taoism if you have the chance. :)

 

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Wed, 02-02-2005 - 8:30pm

> am I the odd man out here...

I don't know. Maybe I'm the odd man in. LOL. After a long session with lots of insertions, things get wet down there, including the fur getting matted down. On numerous occassions, I take my partner's finger with mine and together we feel around that area where two organs are merging into one. When a lady needs a trim, it's common to feel stray hairs which got pushed in with me. Feeling with a finger is believing.

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Wed, 02-02-2005 - 10:01pm

Well geez, this sounds like the old race to 69 on this board, between me, Kat (the other Kat), Chezy, Shannon, BJ, Lynnie, et al.

:( Am I the only one left who remembers those days and the purposeful pushing up of messages to make the board 69?

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Registered: 09-22-2004
Thu, 02-03-2005 - 2:51am

I care strongly in that I (being pro-hair) am simply trying to make the case for acceptance of it because I have seen so much "hate" I guess on the subject. I really could care less what others do, just care that others would tell me that not shaving it off is nasty, that "no girl has hair down there anymore"-in such general terms, and "only heavy girls don't shave it", "any girl that is "attractive" will shave it bald". Believe me when I say tat all these things are not coming from one person, rather many I've heard. You see, when statements are made like that, its apparent to me that alot of people are influencing others to go bald too. "Ew gross" to a person who can easily be influenced (ie my generation on the way up) becomes "well I better conform", its alot like society these days. I'm just trying to put up the good fight on this matter, trying to show that not everyone is bald down there as some would believe. Its another reason why I initially phrased this thread with the twenty-somethings in mind, because thats the group I hear such statments coming out of. "Its unclean, dirty, unkempt", My answer: "ever hear of a bath or shower?" You know, people spend enough time grooming everywhere else, I spend an aweful lot of time and money on taking care of myself and making myself look good (hair care products, etc.) Why cant there just be one area thats whatever, y'no? Thats where I'm coming from on this. And yes, Taoist has read me right on with the fact that I am a single male who has a strong preference for girls with pubic hair (in a world where such a female is increasingly hard to find, especially in my age bracket). Thanks Everyone

Edited 2/3/2005 3:04 am ET ET by flyguy2004




Edited 2/3/2005 3:06 am ET ET by flyguy2004
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Thu, 02-03-2005 - 7:50am

LIke the energizer bunny ...... 211 messages and it keeps going and going and going and going and going and going and going ......

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