Anyone appreciate hair down there?

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Registered: 09-22-2004
Anyone appreciate hair down there?
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Mon, 09-27-2004 - 5:00pm
Does anyone actually appreciate the presence of, and appearance of pubic hair? After reviewing many of the message posts within this site and hearing from different people in public it seems like everyone is on a mission to end the presence of all bikini hair on earth forever. I find pubic hair to be physically appealing and am especially interested to hear some replies from others within the 20-30 age bracket of which I am a part. I have no issue with maintanence, but find the brazilian method a bit much. I need to know that I am not the only one left who sees value in keeping hair down there. I'm looking for as many posts as possible, please fill me in.


Edited 9/29/2004 9:34 pm ET ET by flyguy2004

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Sat, 02-05-2005 - 8:41pm

tally and raindancer,

Agree with you and I don't know why hairs being pulled in would happen or be a problem, especially during intercourse. DW is unshaved and we discovered some time back that the long hairs right around her labia could sometimes cause HER irritation during digital stimulation ( one of our favorite things , either as a warm-up to IC, or by itself). It's never a problem during IC. We solved this problem simply by trimming those hairs right along her labial lips. We spend about 5 mins on it every 4-6 weeks.

sumguy,

We're all suitably impressed that you were with two women in one day, and I, for one, am really glad that you weren't prejudiced against "natural lady". As I said above, I've never had any trouble with DW's unshaved hairs during intercourse. The "stick together" part is something I wouldn't enjoy. We use lots of lub and oil externally to keep everything sliding smoothly and , frankly, her pubic hair helps in this regard. Feels great, too.

We often hear men complain about "getting hairs in my teeth". I hear this a lot over on askmen.com, anyway, where the overwhelming number of (mostly younger) men seem to insist on their women being all or mostly shaved. In my experience with giving oral , this has NEVER been a problem. While DW and I are generally kissing and cuddling I occassionally get a hair in my mouth, and it's no big deal. It's also either her or my HEAD hair. Actually she likes to kiss and nuzzle my chest, which is fairly hairy, and she frequently gets hair in her mouth. I asked her if she wanted me to shave my chest.
She said , "NO WAY!"
taoist

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Sat, 02-05-2005 - 8:58pm

para, you said,
""After thinking about it, you're right indeed. Personal grooming is NOT a personal choice anymore. For example, if your lady felt the desire at anytime in the future to groom differently than normal, and yet she already knew you wouldn't like it because of your known preference that you felt so strongly about...

...then you're right...

...her personal grooming choice may be too influenced by known strong preference right there...

...whereas my own wife, for example, wouldn't have that pressure issue whatsoever.""

If you're implying that my wife no longer has a personal choice because of pressure from me, you're WAY off base. My wife has never shaved her pubes (except around the edges for a swimsuit), and has no intention of ever doing so. If she suddenly changed her mind, she knows my preference, but I'd go along with what she wanted.

What I meant by personal choice is pressure from other people, other men and women. My wife shaves her legs and armpits because OTHER people would judge her negatively if she didn't. I would prefer that she didn't and she would just as soon not shave there either, but it isn't her or my personal choice. I just hate to see that pubic hair is now in the same category of social unacceptance, especially since the only ones who see it are her OB-GYN and I.
taoist

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Registered: 09-22-2004
Sun, 06-19-2005 - 6:11pm
Sorry for bringing this beast of a thread back to life but i'm trying to help the person who posted a new thread on the subject recently.
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Registered: 09-22-2004
Fri, 12-01-2006 - 10:39am
You are right on that post you made. Its considered a "fetish" thing these days and its ridiculous.
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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sat, 12-02-2006 - 3:55pm

Hi flyguy:

Hairy or smooth, I just want to be touching the vulva area. I always wondered the VALUE OF HAVING PUBIC HAIR.

Mac

 

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