Anyone appreciate hair down there?

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Registered: 09-22-2004
Anyone appreciate hair down there?
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Mon, 09-27-2004 - 5:00pm
Does anyone actually appreciate the presence of, and appearance of pubic hair? After reviewing many of the message posts within this site and hearing from different people in public it seems like everyone is on a mission to end the presence of all bikini hair on earth forever. I find pubic hair to be physically appealing and am especially interested to hear some replies from others within the 20-30 age bracket of which I am a part. I have no issue with maintanence, but find the brazilian method a bit much. I need to know that I am not the only one left who sees value in keeping hair down there. I'm looking for as many posts as possible, please fill me in.


Edited 9/29/2004 9:34 pm ET ET by flyguy2004

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Registered: 09-23-2004
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 5:13pm
MAN, WHAT A CONTREVERSIAL SUBJECT!!!!!! OKAY, I WAS A FAITHFUL BALDY FOR 12 YEARS...I HATED IT!!!!! BUT MAINLY I THOUGHT THAT GUYS PREFERED IT THAT WAY, ATLEAST THEY ALL SAID THEY LIKED IT AND MOST GROOMED THEMSELVES AS WELL. HOWEVER, THEY GUY I AM WITH NOW HAS THE CURLIEST, REDDEST PATCH OF PUBIC HAIR YOU'VE EVER SEEN AND I LOVE IT!!!!! I LOVE TO CURL MY FINGERS IN IT AS A TEASE BEFORE I GO FOR THE TREASURE =). ANYWAY, HE REALLY LIKED IT THAT I SHAVED AND SAID HE'D NEVER BEEN WITH A WOMAN THAT COMPLETELY SHAVED EVERYTHING. THEN I GOT REALLY SICK FOR ABOUT A WEEK AND WAS DOING GOOD TO EVEN TAKE SHOWERS AND LET THE SHAVING GO. WHEN I WAS FEELING BETTER WE STARTED TO HAVE SEX AND I TRIED TO MAKE HIM WAIT UNTIL I HAD GOTTEN A CHANCE TO SHAVE BUT BEFORE I KNEW IT HIS HEAD WAS IN MY CROTCH AND HE FELL IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN. HE SAID HE LOVED SEEING "HER WITH A LITTLE FUR." I ABOUT DIED, BUT HE WAS SERIOUS!!!!! HE HAS ALWAYS SAID THAT I HAVE A BEAUTIFUL (LET'S KEEP THIS CLEAN) VAGINA BUT SINCE THAT DAY I ONLY KEEP HER TRIMMED UP, NOT COMPLETELY BALD. IT TOOK A LOT OF GETTING USED TO BUT THE WAY I SEE IT, SHE'S HIS AND HE HAS EVERY RIGHT TO MAKE DECISIONS ABOUT HER =). I GUESS I WAS WASTING MY TIME ALL THOSE YEARS JUST TO TRY TO IMPRESS A FEW GUYS. AFTER READING THIS BOARD I NOW SEE THAT IT'S NOT THAT IMPORTANT.
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Registered: 06-03-2004
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 5:49pm
I vote for hair. I'm in your age range and i definitely prefer hair. I don't think it's sexy to have NO hair at all. Plus i think it looks better then the little girl look.

Short and sweet, yes to hair

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Tue, 10-19-2004 - 7:27pm
jojosgirl,

Your post is precisely why I always try to put in my vote for hair. I feel that many women are like you.. They don't like to shave, and they don't prefer it bald, but they feel like they HAVE TO shave in order to impress men and be considered clean and well-groomed. I'm aware that an increasing number of men are shaving as well (and I can't for the life of me understand why) , but I don't think men feel nearly the pressure that women do.

taoist
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Registered: 12-17-2003
Wed, 10-20-2004 - 6:25am
I prefer to keep the hair... I don't shave at all, but I do trim to a reasonable length. Unfortunately, I thought for a long time I "had" to shave or men would be disgusted. I never did it anyway, but I was kind of embarassed about sporting a bush, even if it wasn't full length.

Thankfully, DH says he couldn't care less whether it's shaved or trimmed, except that he absolutely hates stubble and "prickliness", so I try to be careful not to trim TOO closely. The only time it's an issue is if I've been lazy (like during my pregnancy, as it was hard to see what I was doing) and the bush gets so long he has to dig around to find my clit.. LOL.

I absolutely hate the bare look, on men or women. I think a "landing strip" on a woman looks okay, but I wouldn't bother for myself. Way too much hassle.

On men, a full bush is fine, but trimmed down just a bit is best... so the depth of the fuzz is about half an inch I guess.

--K

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Wed, 10-20-2004 - 11:15am
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 10-20-2004 - 11:21am

I don't feel being shaved has the *little girl* look at all.


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Registered: 10-12-2004
Wed, 10-20-2004 - 12:52pm


I think there is no right answer as its a matter of personal taste. Its completely subjective . No right or wrong just what you personally like. Its like facial hair on a guy, some love it come can't abide it.

For the record I'm a guy and I'm 42 and do shave.

Myself, I love shaved pubic areas, for several reasons:

- Oral sex is much easier when you don't have to fight your way through a thick growth of pubic hair to get to your partners labia's and clitoris.

- I find a woman's vulvas and labia's minor and majora very sexy and to much pubic hair obscure them. That is especially true when woman is standing up. I find the plump crease of a woman's labia majora incredibly sexy, beckoning and teasing with its promis of the pleasures it holds Even more so if she has labia minors that protrude visibly, (a personal turn on).

- Sensation, I'm guy who shaves. For me the skin around the base of the penis and the scrotum is sensitive and I get much more tactile stimulation with hair removed than with it there. As such I find it increases my sensation and pleasure during sex when its shaved. When its bare skin to bare skin even more so.

-I like the look, on myself as well. Again purely subjective but I just find it looks neater.

- And finally, ok here's one for the guys, even though most women don’t care, shaving does make you penis look larger. Think of it as the equivalent of a pushup bra for men ;-)

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Wed, 10-20-2004 - 3:44pm
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Registered: 10-23-2003
Thu, 10-21-2004 - 12:01pm

Love hair down there. Its natural and shows you have matured. You don't want to look like a 9 year old or a porn star do you?

Jim

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Registered: 10-18-2001
Fri, 10-22-2004 - 12:24am

>>Well, I am from Europe...but now almost any woman and girl here shaves.
Times have changed in Europe :-) <<

I've just gotten back from Europe, and I agree. Times have changed over there and I had this exact discussion with friends of mine in Paris, funnily enough. She and the vast majority of her friends shave and wax etc.

Personally, I prefer well trimmed over completely bald. I like the look, I prefer it vastly during oral sex, and the increased sensation during intercourse alone is worth it.

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