Anyone else ever done this?

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Anyone else ever done this?
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Mon, 07-23-2007 - 1:07pm
I'm 50ish and always seem to date younger guys. I told myself I'd never settle for the wrong guy, so I've pretty much stayed single for quite some time. I've had the occasional 'friends with benefits' nights, but for the most part, haven't settled. Anyway, a couple months ago I met the man of my dreams, finally. He's everything I've ever wanted and the feeling is 100% mutual for the first time in my life.
Let me backtrack about most of my past sexual experiences over the past 10 years. As a norm, I must have my bottle of lube with me all the time. I'm dryer than a desert. My man can perform oral sex for however long, but when it comes time to have intercourse, I get dry really quick. This has happened with boyfriends that I thought I loved, and FB's as well.
Now, with the man of my dreams, it's insane! During intercourse, almost every single time, he must touch something inside me and it makes me gush to an extreme!!! He said he's never seen that before...nor has it ever happened to me, ever. Like I said, it's usually the opposite. So my question is: Is this normal? Is there something wrong with me all of a sudden? Has anyone else ever had this happen? I'm talking wet!! Leaves the bed sopping! Not just moist...or wet...I'm talking gushing! It's insane.
Just another reason I truly believe we belong together.
Help!

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Thu, 07-26-2007 - 10:09pm

Thanks for sharing your story aubry_ann! I know DH and I have that sort of connection. He's the first man that ever sent my head to the clouds and has, for the most part, made it stay there. We both feel lucky to have met, and we both realize that changing history would also change us. Life happens for a reason, and often, it's those lessons that allow us to "get it". It sounds like you and your soon to be groom "get it" too! For us, it's been nearly 17 years since we fell in love, and he still sends my heads to the clouds on a regular basis.

I wish everyone could have such a relationship, and I'm glad to hear there are so many on this thread that are finding them!!



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Registered: 05-11-2007
Fri, 07-27-2007 - 8:54am
That is a great story Aubry, having met my soulmate too I can so relate. Thanks so much for sharing it. I wish you both many more years of happiness!
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Registered: 05-13-2007
Fri, 07-27-2007 - 6:42pm

Yes I agree about how changing history would change the way things are. Through the years we have often thought of how things would be if we were together, but one of the things that makes this relationship so great is that our past experiences (without each other) have made us who we are today. Truthfully, the only regret I have about getting married to the highschool BF is hurting him through the years by not really being able to full give him my heart. We share a beautiful little boy, and I know that if we had not been together, I would not have this light of my life. We had great times together.

It was an extremely painful divorce, as he did not want the marriage to end and my guilt of hurting him often clouded my vision of the way I new things had to be. But I knew that something was missing, and was never fully "there" in it with him. We remained amicable and actually friends after the smoke cleared, until he met the woman he is now married to (which is a whole other story entirely). Going through the divorce made me confident in myself, and stronger as a person. I really love who I am today, and that makes my relationship with my soon to be hubby that much better.

I don't think things would have been so great if we had gotten together when we were younger.

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