Are Players great in bed?

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Are Players great in bed?
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Thu, 08-05-2004 - 3:22am
Do players know how to please a women in bed? Have you ever met a player (maybe not a true player) who was'nt good in bed?

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Registered: 04-19-2003
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 6:07am
I've never slept with a player so can't comment - except to say that one can never completely generalise about a part of population.
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 10:24am
Never been with a player, but I suppose like everything else, some will be good, some won't.






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Registered: 05-21-2004
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 11:12am
i dated a total player (under the ridiculous notion that he'd change his ways FOR ME!! hahahahahha- lesson learned on THAT one!)

and surprise surprise...he was NOT good in bed, extraordinarily selfish!! it doesn't really surprise me- players are the way they are becuase they want selfish instant gratification from 'attention' they get from girls...so it's not terribly surprising they aren't terribly interesting in having good TWO-WAY fulfilling sex with people, so long as THEY get off!

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 11:51am
Never been with one, not my type. But isn't the whole point of being a "player" to rack up the numbers and to APPEAR to be a ladies' man, mainly to other men? To "play" means "to deceive", doesn't it?

I would doubt that most "players" know much more about women/sex than the average guy does. In fact, I would imagine the average guy knows MORE and puts to use what he's learned. A player thinks he knows it all already and that every woman should respond the same way.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 12:37pm
i've been with 3 people who I would consider "players." they were all **great** in bed. emotionally available enough to lure you in + withholding enough to make you want them more + awesome sex = heartbreaker!! none of them really talked it up to other guys, i think it was just an internal ego boost for them -- and part of the ego thing is knowing you can satisfy your woman physically.
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Registered: 04-06-2004
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 2:55pm
hahaha- the one man that I was with that seriously everyone drooled over- was AWFUL in bed. Thats not even to belittle him--- I would say maybe three thrusts (can I say that?) and he was finished... I would just be warming up- it was so bad...
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Registered: 05-21-2004
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 3:51pm
There are two types of players. True Players and Wannabe Players. True Players actually know how to please a women and are dominant in bed. They're job is to please the women. To satisfy her sexually. He knows how to get the job done. The women that say " i been with a player and he sucked in bed " are the wannabe players, who think they are pleasing the women. These are the womanizers who are selfish. The wannabe's are your typical AFC's who try and try to live up to a True Players status.

A true Player, if he's playing his cards right will have a women fall for him without her even knowing it, because his game is that good, as towards a wannabe will get caught. A true players game is that he has no game. He doesnt have to try as opposed to the wannabe. Everything comes naturally
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Registered: 07-30-2004
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 4:37pm
Ha ha. Can I be a true player? Is there some sort of certification course that I could do? Is there a guild? A union? What's on the exam? If I pass can I join in the CRAPPING (Certified Real Ass Pathetic Players INternational Guild)? lol.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 08-05-2004 - 5:07pm
Too funny, Phat! WHO are the guys that sit around dreaming up this stuff and just imagine what they could accomplish if they put that energy into something constructive!!???
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Registered: 08-05-2004
Sun, 08-08-2004 - 12:31pm
I had a guy who was a total player say that to me too. That'd he'd change his ways for me. We were trying out a relationship (I wouldn't nessessarily say he was a boyfriend so I never considered him as one since it wasn't really that way) but he said after the third week he couldn't stay faithful and he was seeing another girl on the sideline. I was really hurt since I did want to try a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with him and really liked him since he was sweet and knew all the right things to say, but I know now that it wasn't good for me to have that. Now it's a lil hard for me to trust some guys cause of that one exeperience with someone I cared about. I'm glad I didn't sleep with him or anything even though this question makes me wonder...I guess it depends on the guy and type of player he is. If he's a "ladies man" maybe he is good in bed so he'd keep his reputation, but if he just cares about himself he probably doesn't take the time to care about the woman he's sleeping with. Just to have another name on his belt loop. XOXO.

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