Are you a Voyeur?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Are you a Voyeur?
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Tue, 09-18-2007 - 2:34pm

Are you a Voyeur?



  • Yes
  • No
  • Other, please explain


You will be able to change your vote.






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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 8:35am

Welcome to the board lizinjupiter.

I think if I was sneaking a peak and got caught watching, I would feel more embarrassed than if I discovered a stranger was watching hubby and I. Either way thought, I agree that both are totally hot.










iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 8:46am
Hi Cherron,



You should be able to change your answer if you want to, but voyeurism is watching others. I started this poll for exhibitionism which sounds more like what you enjoy.










iVillage Member
Registered: 12-26-2004
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 8:52pm

Thanks for the welcome.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 09-30-2007 - 9:10pm
In several hotel situations, especially in rooms with mirrors. The first time, it was accidental. Hubby and I were on our honeymoon and the room we had was covered with mirrors (ceiling and all). We were in a room on the 4th floor, facing the woods. We never closed the drapes, and never gave it another thought. The last full day that we were there, we were sitting by the pool and I looked up at the hotel, telling hubby to look at the room -- "it was just like ours". Upon further examination, we discovered that it WAS ours! Once we were in the room, we also looked down and saw a parking lot below. While all would have been fine, no one would have been able to see us, except for the mirrored ceiling and walls gave a great reflection! We decided we liked the thought of others sneaking a peak after that weekend.









iVillage Member
Registered: 12-26-2004
Mon, 10-01-2007 - 12:41am

That sounds fun.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-09-2006
Mon, 09-01-2008 - 1:04pm
I know that I am really both, but I am more of an exhibitionist. I'm exceedingly cautious about my desire to be seen, though because there are some real lunatics out there, men and women both, I almost never have arranged for men to see me, unless they are with their wives and they watch me together. In apartment and condo buildings close next to mine, when I have been attracted to someone, I've arranged the blinds and curtains in such a way (about six inches above the sill; broad daylight) so the person can glimpse me. By going to another window so arranged so I'm not seen there, I can see if they're at all interested. A well-placed mirror, a bright lamp or two, provide the illumination or the background (if I want to show my silhouette, too). If the person is uninterested, I stop, but if, as is more common than you'd ever believe, the woman (or man) likes to watch, then I go on from there. I'm so careful about it, never once has any person seemed to understand that I knew they were there, nor, what's more, did they ever seem to understand that I, by going to the other room, was watching them. I've secretly seen, through that second window, women so excited to see me they practically rip off their clothes and couples, too, who masturbated while waiting for me to reappear in the room where I had been moments before.
Cunégonde
iVillage Member
Registered: 08-29-2008
Mon, 09-01-2008 - 1:16pm
Yes I am a voyeur-but the only time I was ever an actual voyeur was one sleepy morning late in my freshman year at the Institute. A girl was in the bathroom in a nearby dorm and the supposedly frosted window did not obstruct my view. However, as it was an all male dorm she was in that bathroom (which was for female guests) was not used very often. I think she was probably there for the Dead concert the following night.

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