Asian penis size??

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Registered: 10-19-2004
Asian penis size??
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Wed, 12-01-2004 - 8:40pm

Yes this is a petty question but some girls and i were discussing if asians have a smaller penis. One of my friends dated a Japanese American and she said he was very, very tiny.

In addition I am a swimmer and see a lot of men in speedos well they don't have as big as "packages" but who knows? I am just curious to know if this was an urban legend or the truth.

Cheers!!!

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Wed, 08-10-2005 - 2:53am

hellooo.... all......
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Registered: 07-04-2006
Tue, 07-04-2006 - 2:45am

Hi Everyone!

This is my first post because I think the topic needed more responses from Asians. I am 34 years old and Asian-American (Chinese). First, the stats: I'm 7.2 inches in length and 4.5 inches in circumference. (By the way, I did the measurements under the proper scientific method of taking a strip of paper and measuring on the top of the penis from the base to the tip and then measuring the paper with a ruler). I think this puts me in high average by Caucasian standards? (comments ladies?).

More importantly what I have to share is this: I spent most of my teenage (virgin) years feeling inadequate about my manhood because I feel that mainstream film and television has done a pretty good job of emasculating the image of the Asian male. Often we are portrayed as weaklings, geeks, nerds, or simply the guy that doesn't get the girl or save the day. What also didn't help was the stereotype of the "Asian Penis" and of course reinforced by the rampant porn that usually shows white/black guys with the 12" monster. Now we all know that most white/black guys don't have even close to 12" and that porn tends to attract those that do -- but what I mean is the image that it creates that white/black guys are studlier than Asian guys. I know this has changed recently with more positively macho figures like Jackie Chan, Jet Li, and basketball player Yao Ming making the mainstream media but the "Asian Male" has a long way to go to gain recognition. This is also reinforced by the common sight of Asian Girl/White Guy interracial dating but much less of the reverse.

It was only as I got older that I started to see that things were different than what they appear.

First was when I joined the US Military. As everyone knows, there are times when we have to use a common shower. People from all races would shower together. I'm not at all gay -- but unless you intend to shower with your eyes closed, you're going to see lots of penis in every direction. That's the first time I realized that most guys were about the same size when soft (black guys included).

Since then, I've had the opportunity to have sexual partners of almost every major race -- white, black, Asian, Latina, east-Indian. Thank goodness none of them had any complaints about my performance. I have to admit though that none of them said I was the biggest guy they've had. Actually, I've had some compliments that my oral ability is the best they've had. I think that's because I spent a lot of time giving oral because I was self-conscious that girls may not think I'm big enough. It was an added benefit that she gets to orgasm once before penetration.

Asian guys take notice!... the reason why there are more Asian girls dating white guys than reverse is simply because the white guys ASK THEM OUT. Asian guys have yet to make it common practice to ask white/black/Latina girls out on dates. Yes, there may be some girls that absolutely won't date Asian guys but I think 90% of girls out there are open minded and as ML King said will not judge us by the color of our skin but by the content of our character. (Well, it's not really skin since many of us are whiter than white people). So Asian guys... there's no point in resenting the white guy or putting down the Asian girl... just do your part for "equal opportunity dating" and ask the non-Asian girls out!

All you girls out there -- tell me if what i just said is true or not?! If you were asked out, what would your answer be?

One more thing is that there is not much space for porn stars in Asian cultural values. Just like there are megatall Asian basketball players, I'm sure in 2 billion Asians worldwide there have to be a lot of 12" dicks -- but they won't become porn stars and we'll never see them -- unfortunately.

If you're a non-Asian girl reading this... I just want you to know... the "Asian Man" may not have the biggest penis on the block but don't believe those statistics and media jokes that often say we all have tiny packages. More importantly than that, the Asian man is will lavish you with the generosity, tenderness, and respect you deserve as a woman. You won't likely find an Asian man that is going to lay a hand on you or treat you like his "bitch" or "ho". If you're ever asked out by an Asian man, please remember that it probably took him some time to get the confidence to ask you out -- say YES! =)

If you're an Asian girl reading this... we Asian guys love you! You girls really know how to make a man feel like man. You may see more of us guys dating interracially -- but it's all good.

PS: I don't want people to think that the difference between races is always on my mind. What I've learned more than anything in dating interracially is that "girls are girls". They're mostly all looking for the same qualities in a man and it doesn't matter if she was from the midwestern USA or midwestern China.

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Registered: 07-26-2005
Tue, 07-04-2006 - 2:07pm

Stereotypes are sickening! But, human beings being what they are, they will probably always exist. I think the "small" asian idea came from the fact that until 50-60 years ago, most "oriental" people, were smaller in stature all the way around, than caucasians. After WW2, when "western" diets became more prevalent all over the world, the oriental people became taller on average than they had been. Not that height makes a difference.....a 7' man can have a smaller penis than a 5'4" man! But, general stature getting larger would seem to indicate that the "averages" would grow, too.

I don't know about any other women, but I wouldn't hesitate to date an oriental man. When I was a teen ager, I was crazy about Jimmy Shigeta! As we used to say, "he could put his shoes under my bed anytime he wanted to!"

And after all is said and done, as you said, for MOST women, it still goes back to what you DO with it and every other tool at your disposal that will be a deal maker or breaker.

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