Attractive penii & vaginae? ;-)

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Attractive penii & vaginae? ;-)
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Thu, 07-29-2004 - 3:39pm
I had a "Sex and the City"-style discussion this am with a friend of mine ... this was so funny. She has had a couple of dates with a guy, and she said he was nice, but boy did he ever have an ugly penis. To you, what's an attractive vs. an ugly penis? Or vagina, for that matter? Just outta curiosity.
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Thu, 07-29-2004 - 6:18pm
hahaha. Loved your post and I totally agree. I wanted to post earlier, but couldn't find the words! LOL, thanks - you took them right out of my mouth. Although, I like my hubby's size which is 7" long and 5" around. I've seen a few in my lifetime and there ARE definitely penis's out there that are just not attractive at all, where others have it going on. It's true.

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Thu, 07-29-2004 - 7:24pm
well it's what I've been told ;)
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Fri, 07-30-2004 - 3:09am
I have a pretty good idea of what I think is a good looking vulva but I don't really want to describe it. Normally I would, but I recently came across a nasty website about vulvar aesthetics. I linked there from a very cool site called myVag.net. I won't post the full URL becuase I don't really know the rules round these parts. THe heinous site which I found uses very destructive language as well as poor grammar to espouse a view that there is a specific appearance that makes a vulva attractive and anything else is "ugly". They plagerized a bunch of stuff from a lower level biology text to make themselves sound scientific although the info that they stole isn't very relevent. They also quote a bunch of stats and facts that they made up. OF course it turns out that they are doing marketing for plastic surgeons (although they must be the most unproffessional plastic surgeons in the world). Trying to create a market by lowering self esteem, objectifying women, and lieing to induce anxiety about a problem that does not exist. Very common (read a women's mag) but evil and unusually blatant and creepy in this case. Anyway, that is why I will leave women to form their own opinions about their own vulvas and I'll appreciate vulvas in a positive way and keep my judgements to myself in this case.
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Fri, 07-30-2004 - 2:08pm
This actually strikes close to home in terms of body image. I have extremely large inner labia and until my early thirties I was very self concious of them. Even though my husband told me over and over (without my prompting) that he thought they were an incredible turn-on, I still felt embarrassed. Anyway, about five years ago it finally sank in that maybe I should enjoy these great lips and not worry that I wasn't like everyone else. Since then I probably have gone to the opposite extreme. I now shave cueball smooth, have 2 one-carat diamond studs in each lip and just recently got an incredible butterfly tattoo (see "labia tattoo" in the tabboo archives). Now, not only are they the biggest lips I've seen but also the most colorful!
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Fri, 07-30-2004 - 2:48pm
Wow! Sounds like a Christmas tree - all decorated and lit up! I shave bald too, but I don't think I could handle the pain of tatooing or piercing there. Ouchie! Didn't it hurt?
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Fri, 07-30-2004 - 10:17pm
The tattoo is really cool...both lips are the wings of a large monarch butterfly...orange, laced with black and a bright blue. The pain of the tattoo wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. However, it did take a couple of weeks for the itching to go away. My dh absolutely loves the effect of the tattoo with the diamond studs (so do I!). Lately it seems we've been having sex at least once a day and he's gone down on me more times than I can count.

In terms of what makes an attractive penis? I guess any that is erect. I wouldn't say that my dh's is attractive...more like impressive. His penis is extremely large and heavily veined so it's not pretty. It definitely is not something that you would find on a sculpture but it turns me on enough!

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Sat, 07-31-2004 - 9:17am
An attractive vagina...or rather genital area...is when a woman is aroused. Color, shape etc. don't matter. When her vaginal lips are protruding and she is opening up, now *that's* attractive!
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Sat, 07-31-2004 - 1:16pm
Ok, I'll nibble on the "attractive vagina" issue.

For me I love the Brazilian wax. It highlights the details and lessens the hack/hairball factor. I also love the incredible sensation on my shaved testicles. Another specific feature is bigger labia majora. It's sort of like opening a gift when you spread the lips apart and, "Voila!" the naughty bits reveal themselves, soft, warm and moist.

I also LOVE large inner labias. A healthy amount to tug, lick, and gently nibble.

Mmmmmm...

Lastly, a tight vagina is definitely an A++!

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Mon, 08-02-2004 - 5:36pm
Mmmmm -- it sounds nice! Both packages. ;)
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Mon, 08-02-2004 - 7:57pm
An attractive penis is one that "snaps to attention on command".