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Registered: 04-01-2007
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Sat, 04-28-2007 - 11:13pm
just curious how 'normal' my sex life is, how many times does everyone average a week
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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: angelwings2007
Sun, 04-29-2007 - 1:09am

"Normal" and "average" are two different things. "Normal" for you is not "normal" for me, and vice versa. The "average" for a married couple I believe is about 2-3 times a week.

Normal for you might be 10 times a week, and for me it might be once every two months. There's nothing wrong with either of us, because that's "normal" for US. It doesn't matter what anyone else does, if I'm happy with my "normal"....I really don't care about anyone else's "normal".

If you're not happy with what seems to be normal for you & your partner, that's a whole different story. If you want more (or less), it's up to you to communicate what you want with your partner, and hopefully come to a compromise that can make you both happy.

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Registered: 10-18-2001
In reply to: angelwings2007
Sun, 04-29-2007 - 5:48am
I haven't got a lot more to add. It's been said already!
I'm averaging about 0.3 this week. And that's not normal for me either ;-) LOL!
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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: angelwings2007
Sun, 04-29-2007 - 12:11pm

There is no normal, whatever works for the two people involved is *normal* for that couple.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: angelwings2007
Sun, 04-29-2007 - 1:50pm

As the others have said, normal (or average) varies greatly from one couple to the next. Even as a couple, our "normal" changes depending on what else life is throwing our way. We have been known to have sex as often as 10-12 times a week and we have been known to go 10-12 weeks with no sex!

The important thing is to be content with what is working for you. If one or both of you is unhappy, then you should talk about it and see if you can find a way for both of you to be satisfied. If other things in life are getting in the way of having the relationship that you would prefer, then try to evaluate those things and see if they can be changed.



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