awkward question about after
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| Wed, 08-17-2005 - 8:51am |
A sort of awkward thing happened this morning. I slept over my guy's house (we've only been seeing each other for about a month), and this morning I gave him a little good morning handjob. This was the first time I'd actually jerked him to orgasm, we usually just end up having sex after something like that before he comes. Well, obviously he finished ...um, on himself...and with my old boyfriend he would always sort of grab a towel/t-shirt/whatever and clean off, but this morning my guy just laid there, until I said do you have a towel nearby? He giggled at me. Is it my job to find something to clean up with? Or....it was his house, I didn't know what he wanted to use.
It was just really awkward, what the heck are you supposed to do, me laying there with a jizz covered hand and him with it all over his stomach???

There's nothing you're *supposed* to do, if you wanted to clean off your hand, then you go and clean your hand off and you could bring him something to clean off with if you want.
You're supposed to do whatever YOU want to do, and he will do the same! If you wanted to get up and wash your hands.....you should have. He's a big boy, and he can handle his own "mess". I'm sure he's done it himself many times, and he got up and cleaned himself off.
You've only known this guy a month....and that's what getting to know each other is about...it's not supposed to be "embarassing" or awkward....it's what happens when you have sex.....it can get messy, and everyone has their own way of dealing with the mess.
You could have licked it up if you wished ; maybe he was waiting to see what you'd do.
"We" keep a box of tissues on the tables on each side of the bed, and whomever feels so inclined grabs their box of tissues and offers it first to the other before grabbing 2 or 3 themselves to begin mop-up operations.
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when a guy doesnt display ne forms of clean up equipment,
it usually means they want "you" to do it,
most guys are kinky like that
although some guys are more respectfull to us than others
the least he could have done was told you
next time
if he doesnt do or say ne thing,
then just say
if u dont tell me wot u want me to do with it, ill just leave it there then, i hear its good for your skin ne ways
and see what he sez
If he wanted her to lick it up then he should have told her, some women like kinky stuff too.
It never even crossed my mind to lick it up. But now that I think about it, if he had asked I probably would have, and not been disrespected by it at all. I would have found that exciting, and I'd be turned on that he wanted me to do something like that.
However, if the situation arises again, I doubt I would do that without him asking for it. I'd be too shy, nervous, or afriad he will think it's weird.