back when you were dating.....

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Registered: 08-02-2004
back when you were dating.....
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Wed, 12-28-2005 - 2:09am

Questions for women: Did you go out with a guy that maybe you weren't all that interested in and then end up having some kind of sex? Maybe you didn't want intercourse but maybe you gave him a bj or hj for showing you a good time.

?Did you ever go out on a date not expecting to have sex and then it happens because you either find yourself attracted to the guy or more turned on than you expected?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-28-2005 - 11:32am
No, to both questions. I wouldn't go out with a guy just to go out. I would have to be definitely attracted to him.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 12-28-2005 - 1:07pm
Nope.
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Wed, 12-28-2005 - 1:11pm

A female friend of mine has gone out with a guy that she wasn't that interested in, more or less to be polite because he asked her out and was a real gentleman about it. She did not sleep with him or provide him with anything else though. Just the date.

Can't comment on the last question.

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Wed, 12-28-2005 - 3:35pm

I've gone with with guys that I wasn't that interested in, but my answer is no to any kind of sex.


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Wed, 12-28-2005 - 4:24pm

Questions for women: Did you go out with a guy that maybe you weren't all that interested in and then end up having some kind of sex? Maybe you didn't want intercourse but maybe you gave him a bj or hj for showing you a good time.

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Registered: 08-02-2004
Thu, 12-29-2005 - 12:33pm
I've had a few first dates like that. I think it's great when the sex is so unexpected. That must have been great for you.
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Registered: 09-30-2005
Fri, 12-30-2005 - 2:37pm
It was great and luckily we are together now and have been for almost two years.